Advise needed (stuck in the middle)

[Jamesanderson]

A girl had her boyfriend whom she was in love with. 2 months ago she had conflicts with him which resulted her love pour towards me at that time. We were having a good time, basically she wanted me to love her, we shared high intimacy. She also offered me to have sex (not did). Now bf come back. Last time we shared intimacy was 2 weeks ago after that i pulled away to make her chase. So 3 days ago she saw hickey mark on my neck. Today her guard was up and she was enjoying call with bf. Want to know if she will give me intimacy again & chase? 

[MsJayne]

20 hours ago, Jamesanderson said:

after that i pulled away to make her chase

Well, that was pretty stupid. Likewise for the hickey on your neck, I presume this was from a casual encounter, so why advertise that you've been hooking up with other females? Why would you behave like this towards a girl you supposedly like? If you ever want to find a decent, intelligent woman, grow up and stop trying to play mind games. Being a jerk is a great way to make women not chase.  

 

20 hours ago, Jamesanderson said:

Want to know if she will give me intimacy again & chase? 

Not if she has any brains. 

[Gebidozo]

First of all, pulling away so that the other person chases you is an idiotic thing to do. No sane adult person is going to participate in such mind games.

Second, hoping that something will come out from hooking up with a girl who offers sex to other men the moment she has trouble with a boyfriend is pointless.

Third, if you got a hickey from another girl and displayed it to this one, it’s a 100% jerk move that it sure to repel any normal girl.

Fourth, it looks like she’s back with her boyfriend, so there is no sense in pursuing her anyway.

 

Edited 6 hours ago by Gebidozo