HE IS ABUSIVE

[claysherly]

My husband always gets mad if i dont consent to his sexual advances and goes upto the point of hitting me until i bleed . last night he sent me to the or and am getting tired of this i want to leave him but i dont know how. is there anyone who has been through this who i can talk to?

[basil67]

I'm sorry this is happening to you, but you must get out.   You haven't provided a location, so I suggest you Google 'domestic violence helpline" and see what help is available to you.

In the meantime, can you leave and stay with a friend or relative?

[stillafool]

34 minutes ago, claysherly said:

last night he sent me to the

Were you going to write hospital there?  If so, did they ask you how you got hurt?  Tell them because they can help.  You can also go to a woman's shelter. Do you have kids?

[MsJayne]

There's millions of women who have been through this, and any one of us would tell you to leave and don't look back. If you have children it's much harder, but if no kids involved then it's a little easier finding somewhere else to live until you get on your feet. Do you have your own money, do you have friends or family you can turn to, and does anyone else know what's going on? If this has been happening for a while it's likely you'll experience, (or are already experiencing), PTSD and will need mental health support to help you on the road to recovery. First step is having him charged with assault, the hospital, (is that what you mean by 'or'?), should have records of your injuries, and then you need to see a divorce lawyer. Depending where you live you may be able to access support through your GP but you must be honest about what's been happening so they can best assess how much help you need. A partner who hits you doesn't love you no matter what he says, so keep that in mind as you take steps against him. I hope you find the strength to deal with this, life's short, don't spend it with an as****e.