Girlfriend of 5 years broke up over text while working abroad, now she's in a relationship with someone else and I'm struggling to cope.

[22Skow]

On 11/29/2024 at 6:44 AM, ExpatInItaly said:

I see it more as her passive way of communicating the truth about her. 

Hi, sorry I've been very busy so long reply, I have read this. Maybe so, a lot of things previously she has not outright said and she was never really upfront, so could very well be that. But yeah its one of those things that I jusr didn't need to know, as It was made very clear there was no reconciliation and we had done 1 month no contact, so i still csnt see the reason.

[ExpatInItaly]

4 minutes ago, 22Skow said:

I jusr didn't need to know, as It was made very clear there was no reconciliation and we had done 1 month no contact, so i still csnt see the reason.

Well, would you have prefered she conceal this and then you somehow found out later? 

I get why it hurts, believe me. But I do think it's better in some way that you know the truth. Now you know the whole picture, and while it isn't pretty, it will be even more motivation to move on from her.