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SunshineSt

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20 hours ago, SunshineSt said:

now you make me feel very stupid for finding it difficult to quit the friendship with him. You all make it sound very easy.

Nobody said it would be easy. 

But you are setting yourself up to get really hurt here. It is just not very realistic to think this friendship is going to last and that it won't be you who gets burmt again.

You are making excuses for yourself to hang on to this friendship, really. 

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21 hours ago, SunshineSt said:

Why do you think it's weird behaviour? 

Well … I suppose ending something isn’t weird.. but after 6 months of being a proper couple and then just expecting you to act like a friend… is a bit weird.   It’s not something I think I would want to do. 

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This friendship is very selfish on his part. He knows you have feelings for him and this friendship will not help you move on. Real friends care about not hurting your feelings. Not hurting you is not a concern of his.  He could make friends elsewhere, you could make friends elsewhere. This is not about friendship, it's about filling a temporary spot for him, and it's about emotional dependency on your part. 

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