sazzya1987 Posted April 8, 2006 Share Posted April 8, 2006 Okay please give it to me straight up!!! I am 35 - he is 40 I have a 10year old girl - he no kids - never married (i was never married too) we have been dating 2 years now He tells me he is afraid of marriage - like it should have already happened tohim - he feels he is too old for it now also too old to ever have a child. He loves my daughter - they are very close. He is a bit jealous of my ex -he always brings up the bond i will have with him forever because of our child. We broke up recently but got back together - he was depressed without me - he said. He knows i want to get married - he told me to take it day by day please he said I know he is scared - i also know he loves me How do i get him to think positive about marriage? all his friends are divorced and unhappy. all my friends are still married and great. I dont know what to do --- please help me!!!! You have only been dating for 2 years, many people don't get married until even in 10 years! My sister and her boyfriend have been dating for 7 years and are still not married, though it may be because you are thinking deep into the age a bit. Just let him have time to think, 2 years is still a short time for planning to marry. In a few years he may realise he has the feelings to mrry you and he will when the time is right. Link to post Share on other sites
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