amber Posted January 20, 1999 Posted January 20, 1999 Dear everybody, I have been dating this guy now for 10 months and I really, really love him but things are not working out. First of all I am very scared of him and I don't know what to expect out of him. He has a very violent temper and even though he has never hit me yet I am still scared that he will in the futre. He has mood swings majorly and I have to be careful what I say to him. Worst of all he trys to encourage my brother to hit my father when they fight ( like he dose to his) and he is always putting me and my family down when he gets mad. I want to let break up with him but I can not let him go.We do still have good times but they seem to be getting few and far between!! Please help me.
michael Posted January 24, 1999 Posted January 24, 1999 hi amber, personaly i think you should brake up. the whle situation is not good. for me ait seems that it is only a matter of time till he starts beating you too. but it is your decision and i don't know if may answer is the right one. hope it will work out good for you.
V Posted January 24, 1999 Posted January 24, 1999 Amber- You need to let this relationship go. If he really loved you he wouldn't disrespect you or your family. Do you really want to be dating a guy that will physically hurt you and try to turn your family against each other? Your guy needs to seek counseling and I think you would be better off without him or at least date him once he gets some help.
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