lana_sa Posted October 17, 2011 Posted October 17, 2011 OK so i haven't contacted my ex in 8 weeks.We had a really bad breakup and it all ended with him saying on fb "i don't want to have anything to do with you anymore,you have your life i have mine"(he broke up with me and he had no reason to be angry)..after that he deleted me off facebook.10 days later he wished me a happy holiday,i replied just "thanks you too,have a nice day".But then he starts contacting my sister,during the 8 weeks he has tried 3 times...they were never close.We are in a long distance relationship(were actually).When he talks,he asks her about her life..never mentions me at all.My sister thinks this is his way to reach out,he is too proud to contact me directly. What do you guys think,why does he do so? any possible reasons you can see? and how should my sis react?
EgoJoe Posted October 17, 2011 Posted October 17, 2011 You need to tell your Sister to tell him to leave her alone. This is really cowardly on his part no matter what his intent is and a real man doesn't act like this.
Marianis Posted October 17, 2011 Posted October 17, 2011 this happened to me to.. he tried to contact my sister but she never replied and delete him (he added her to fb on one fake account!) ... then i saw 2 emails from my other sister and they just talk about them ... not me at all.. it just say like "i will always consider you to be my friend, it doesnt matter im not with your sister anymore" .. and that was 2 weeks ago but the thing is they were never friends since we had a LDR as well.. i dont know what that means either.. but at least i know he is ok.. i do wanna know what it means tho! ..
TheDovic Posted October 17, 2011 Posted October 17, 2011 He's contacting your sister because in reality he wants to speak to you, so in this way he's doing it indirectly as there's less chance of rejection, plus he would be hoping to find out a bit about you. Another common sign an ex wants you back is if they say this miss your family. Again this is easier than saying they miss you! I'm not saying he wants you back, but there's still some interest there for him to do this.
Author lana_sa Posted October 17, 2011 Author Posted October 17, 2011 He's contacting your sister because in reality he wants to speak to you, so in this way he's doing it indirectly as there's less chance of rejection, plus he would be hoping to find out a bit about you. Another common sign an ex wants you back is if they say this miss your family. Again this is easier than saying they miss you! I'm not saying he wants you back, but there's still some interest there for him to do this. Well,how should my sister react? should she tell him anything if he asks?
TheDovic Posted October 17, 2011 Posted October 17, 2011 Well,how should my sister react? should she tell him anything if he asks? Depends on how much you want him to know Lana. Personally if it were me and I'd contacted my ex's sister I'd want to know she was still interested. BUT if you're sis adds that you're doing well and out enjoying yourself it might make him freak out through fear of you moving on. This could cause him to up his game a bit and be honest he wants you back as opposed to playing silly games.
Author lana_sa Posted October 17, 2011 Author Posted October 17, 2011 Thanks Well my sister was avoiding to talk to him,she logged off when he started speaking to her on chat.I think he should come to me and talk...but i understand him kinda.We had a really bad breakup and i guess he is afraid of my reaction,,he was a real jerk at the end
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