alexlakeman Posted August 18, 2010 Posted August 18, 2010 Well, figured I'd make a seperate thread on this scenario, even though I am giong to update my match thread... Went on a first date with someone I met on match, we talked for 1-2 days... really nice looking, sexy, nicely dressed, nice makeup, nice cleavage... When we finally met tonight at happy hour, we start talking, and she asked me do you know so and so... my jaw dropped, I was sooo embarrased, she was one of my freind's ex wife. I hadn't seen her in 5-6 years...big change, lol...she didn't realize it until we had been talking for a little while, and her name didn't even click... It was unique, thought i'd share an embarrasing moment.. we ended up calling her ex / my freind, and laughing about it, but definitely won't be dating her .. would be sooo akward... crap and we had a nice convo going and chemistry, lol... Oh well... We agreed we can go out and I can be her wingman and she can be my wing lady to hook up with others, lol...
Author alexlakeman Posted August 18, 2010 Author Posted August 18, 2010 Thinking about it overnight I'm wondering if I should still pursue her. Can I get the ladies' pov? I'm probably not going to pursue it but just pondering d thought. Her last texted seemed it would just b "freinds"
Philetus Posted August 18, 2010 Posted August 18, 2010 I dated someone from OKCupid and it turned out she had been in the same dance class with my wife for 2+ years. We laughed about it at first but as time past, she felt too weird and awkward about it and it ended. I'm glad it ended, too. It was weird and they were just casual acquaintances. I'd go with your plan A unless you're really into this woman. That sounds like a world of complications.
Author alexlakeman Posted August 19, 2010 Author Posted August 19, 2010 I dated someone from OKCupid and it turned out she had been in the same dance class with my wife for 2+ years. We laughed about it at first but as time past, she felt too weird and awkward about it and it ended. I'm glad it ended, too. It was weird and they were just casual acquaintances. I'd go with your plan A unless you're really into this woman. That sounds like a world of complications. Yeah, I thought about it through the day, and it would be just too weird, lol, plus based on her last text it seemed "indirectly" she was sending the same message "too weird".. lol.. Thank goodness we didn't notice after being in bed and having slept together, that would've been soo wrong, lol
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