mr.dream merchant Posted August 17, 2010 Posted August 17, 2010 At the gym a couple of nights ago, my buddy and I noticed a knock out. She was latin, gorgeous face, and flawless body. She had on a tank top, and what seemed to be spandex boyshorts? I mean, her ass cheeks were literally peeking out of the bottom of the..very short shorts. Following her was, I guess, her boyfriend or romantic figure of some sort of significance for they kissed on the mouth multiple times. My friend and I looked at each other, he said to me "She knows what she's doing man" I agreed. But why is she doing it? Especially if she's in a relationship? I jokingly told my friend that her boyfriend was a sucker and we both got a good laugh out of it. But looking back on it, what possibly could her boyfriend have said to not look like a controlling insecure ******* over her pants? They definitely were borderline gym appropriate and, in my eyes, disrespectful to her boyfriend or whatever he was. I don't understand why she would wear those shorts...My friend said he'd wear one of those bottomless shirts that show your abs if his GF tried him like that. But my stance is, why should it even have to come to that in a loving relationship? If you care about your SO, why would you want to display your body like that? Especially in a gym, it's almost like she wanted the attention - but I don't get it, you have a boyfriend...why are you seeking more attention? Does that mean she's looking for something better but keeping dude along for the ride? It makes no sense to me.. Is consideration for others not what's required in relationships anymore?
WintersNightTraveler Posted August 17, 2010 Posted August 17, 2010 Some men like to show off their hot GFs. Mystery man here may have even encouraged it. Or maybe he just likes choosing the treadmill directly behind the one she does. Sucker or not, he's the one banging the knockout chick men seem to talk about for days afterwards.
Author mr.dream merchant Posted August 17, 2010 Author Posted August 17, 2010 Some men like to show off their hot GFs. Mystery man here may have even encouraged it. Or maybe he just likes choosing the treadmill directly behind the one she does. Sucker or not, he's the one banging the knockout chick men seem to talk about for days afterwards. Lol true story, dude is lucky. Not going to front on that, but my question still goes unanswered.
WintersNightTraveler Posted August 17, 2010 Posted August 17, 2010 my question still goes unanswered. I really did mean that as a potential answer. He may have said something like "hey baby, why don't you wear those sexy pants?" Or perhaps more indirectly - he's always complimenting her when she's made up like that and she knows he likes it. There are many other expanations too of course, and I'm sure the variants on her being a slut or him being a cuckold will come out shortly.
InceptorsRule Posted August 17, 2010 Posted August 17, 2010 Dream Merchant...why are you so worked up over this? It's just some girl's @ss. *Yawn*
goodgrief Posted August 17, 2010 Posted August 17, 2010 consideration for others....or for each other? I'm not sure which you mean? A guy friend of mine is always very turned on by the fact his GF never wears panties, and often goes out with an overcoat with no clothes on underneath. It turns him on that other guys could probably guess this, and loves the fact that they fancy her, and can't have her. He loves to flaunt her.... So their PoV is that others get a good look, get turned on, probably have an enjoyable sexual encounter with THEIR partners, while they as a couple, get a thrill, and enjoy each other all the more.
USMCHokie Posted August 17, 2010 Posted August 17, 2010 He looks better to other men when he shows up to the gym with her on his arm...and what better place to compete with other men than at the gym...
WintersNightTraveler Posted August 17, 2010 Posted August 17, 2010 Hokie, powerful new avatar. Looks like you've been using this: http://www.amazon.com/Gripmaster-Pro-Strengthening-Extra-Heavy-Tension/dp/B000UMHUSI/ref=pd_sim_sg_2 I bet you could do some serious neck snapping with those hands! But don't let your delts go.
tigressA Posted August 17, 2010 Posted August 17, 2010 He looks better to other men when he shows up to the gym with her on his arm...and what better place to compete with other men than at the gym... This. Some people like to show off their partners, especially if they're considered very attractive, because they feel it makes themselves look more impressive as well. The situation you've described likely doesn't have anything to do with the woman seeking attention from other men. It could very well be that she wants to please only her man, and an unintended consequence of that is getting attention from other men.
Author mr.dream merchant Posted August 17, 2010 Author Posted August 17, 2010 Dream Merchant...why are you so worked up over this? It's just some girl's @ss. *Yawn* Worked up is a bit of a stretch. I've always wondered why some women wear clothing that screams for attention when they're in a relationship, that's all. Especially to the extent that the woman in the OP did..
donnamaybe Posted August 17, 2010 Posted August 17, 2010 This. Some people like to show off their partners, especially if they're considered very attractive, because they feel it makes themselves look more impressive as well. The situation you've described likely doesn't have anything to do with the woman seeking attention from other men. It could very well be that she wants to please only her man, and an unintended consequence of that is getting attention from other men. That's it. My ex wanted me to buy a thong bikini so he could take me to the beach wearing it.
K'aycie Posted August 17, 2010 Posted August 17, 2010 Maybe it's because her junk brings all the boys to the yard, and she/he feels, hers is better than yours.
Author mr.dream merchant Posted August 17, 2010 Author Posted August 17, 2010 Lol it is pretty sweet watching other men drool over what you have on lock! I used to give guys a thumbs up when I caught them checking out my ex.
tigressA Posted August 17, 2010 Posted August 17, 2010 That's it. My ex wanted me to buy a thong bikini so he could take me to the beach wearing it. That's a bit much!
goodgrief Posted August 17, 2010 Posted August 17, 2010 That's it. My ex wanted me to buy a thong bikini so he could take me to the beach wearing it. What, you or him....?
tigressA Posted August 17, 2010 Posted August 17, 2010 Lol it is pretty sweet watching other men drool over what you have on lock! I used to give guys a thumbs up when I caught them checking out my ex. Okay, so you gave guys thumbs up in your circumstance, but in this case you've automatically assumed that this woman just has to be seeking attention from other men in the presence of her boyfriend? Wow.
Author mr.dream merchant Posted August 17, 2010 Author Posted August 17, 2010 Okay, so you gave guys thumbs up in your circumstance, but in this case you've automatically assumed that this woman just has to be seeking attention from other men in the presence of her boyfriend? Wow. Well when you're done being angry over nothing, allow me to tell you that my ex wasn't wearing anything NEAR as skimpy as this girl was. Which brings me back to my original question, why?
USMCHokie Posted August 17, 2010 Posted August 17, 2010 Let's also not forget that it may have nothing to do with the guy...it might just be that the girl is a big attention whore who wants to show off her body in the gym...my gym has a few women who wear nothing but a sports bra and tiny shorts to work out...so perhaps this girl just likes to have people stare at her ass hanging out of her shorts... Hell, if the gym let me work out in my underwear, I would... :laugh: No homo.
donnamaybe Posted August 17, 2010 Posted August 17, 2010 That's a bit much! I agree, which is why I never did it.
donnamaybe Posted August 17, 2010 Posted August 17, 2010 Well when you're done being angry over nothing, allow me to tell you that my ex wasn't wearing anything NEAR as skimpy as this girl was. Which brings me back to my original question, why? I guess then, conversely, the NEXT question would be "why not?" WTF is the problem? She has a nice butt, and a little of it peeks out of her shorts to tantalize those who aren't allowed access. Big deal. Let it go. Life is just way too short to worry about "why" in a circumstance where neither you nor anyone else's life is affected.
tigressA Posted August 17, 2010 Posted August 17, 2010 Well when you're done being angry over nothing, allow me to tell you that my ex wasn't wearing anything NEAR as skimpy as this girl was. Which brings me back to my original question, why? It doesn't matter if your ex wasn't wearing anything near as skimpy as this woman. It's still the same result; men were checking them out. If a woman is attractive, men will look. Period.
Author mr.dream merchant Posted August 17, 2010 Author Posted August 17, 2010 Let's also not forget that it may have nothing to do with the guy...it might just be that the girl is a big attention whore who wants to show off her body in the gym...my gym has a few women who wear nothing but a sports bra and tiny shorts to work out...so perhaps this girl just likes to have people stare at her ass hanging out of her shorts... Hell, if the gym let me work out in my underwear, I would... :laugh: No homo. Hahahaha...could you imagine spotting somebody with your package hovering above their face? Oh god.
USMCHokie Posted August 17, 2010 Posted August 17, 2010 Hahahaha...could you imagine spotting somebody with your package hovering above their face? Oh god. Decline bench press!!! :laugh:
Philetus Posted August 17, 2010 Posted August 17, 2010 Maybe, as someone else pointed out, she has a gorgeous body and she likes to show it off. Maybe it has nothing to do w/ her bf. As I got more ripped and women began complimenting my body, I started to wear tighter, more revealing clothing. I have a gf but I still love when I catch a woman checking me out at the gym. It makes me feel very good.
WintersNightTraveler Posted August 17, 2010 Posted August 17, 2010 I have a gf but I still love when I catch a woman checking me out at the gym. It makes me feel very good. You slut! I hope your GF wears a bottomless shirt that shows off her abs, just to teach you a lesson!
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