classof2014 Posted August 16, 2010 Posted August 16, 2010 Based on only the following features (which I know are only a part of relationships), which person would you rather date? Person 1 1. about 5 ft. 10 in. tall 2. nice teeth except for some minor crookedness on the bottom teeth (barely noticeable because the top teeth cover them up) 3. about 20 years old 4. goal orientated, driven. 5. body of a top athlete (think michael phelps but a little shorter) Problems: has repaired cleft lip w/ scar and a nasally voice (like NJ accent) Person 2 1. about 5 ft. 10 in. tall 2. about 20 years old. 3. very obese (about 225 pounds) 4. lazy, spends most of his time watching football, porn, or eating.
OceanTropic Posted August 16, 2010 Posted August 16, 2010 Definitely the first one. No one is perfect, a scar is a scar, and if he has a great personality no one would notice his scar anyways. Besides, being in shape is important, sexually and physically. He needs to keep up!
brainygirl Posted August 16, 2010 Posted August 16, 2010 Who do you like and feel connected to? That matters a hell of a lot more than their stats.
temporaryvisa Posted August 16, 2010 Posted August 16, 2010 LOL. What a weird question... Are you really wondering who we'd pick, the fat porn addict or the driven athlete with okay teeth? :S
brainygirl Posted August 16, 2010 Posted August 16, 2010 Backstory ......He's number one In that case OP, you can't stress yourself out about a choice someone else made, I'm sure we've all seen someone we were interested in a relationship with go for someone we thought was going to be a bad choice, I know I have. But guess what, I doubt you are all that ugly. If you have problems with women it isn't your face or scar, its your attitude.
carhill Posted August 16, 2010 Posted August 16, 2010 He still cares too much. IMO, he's in a fabulous life position and I hope he makes the best of it. It will only come to him later that all this angst is really time wasted. Life is a process though, so he'll have to learn like all the rest of us imperfect people. I hope it works out for him
snowbell Posted August 16, 2010 Posted August 16, 2010 Who do you like and feel connected to? That matters a hell of a lot more than their stats. ^^ This. ^^
Green Posted August 16, 2010 Posted August 16, 2010 Number 2 sounds more like a "Live life my way" "bad boy" kind of guy so he has my vote. stop worrying about your cleft palet and voice.
Enchanted Girl Posted August 16, 2010 Posted August 16, 2010 I don't like number 2, but only because he sounds self-centered. Make guy number 1 be obese and 4'0" and number 2 look like a greek god and I'd still choose number 1.
Green Posted August 16, 2010 Posted August 16, 2010 I don't like number 2, but only because he sounds self-centered. Make guy number 1 be obese and 4'0" and number 2 look like a greek god and I'd still choose number 1. but number 2 doesn't have any problems? Don't you see.... Only number 1 has listed problems.
Enchanted Girl Posted August 16, 2010 Posted August 16, 2010 but number 2 doesn't have any problems? Don't you see.... Only number 1 has listed problems. Number 2 has no problems if he was physically very attractive? =/ I'm sorry, but I care about what's inside a person more than what they look like and I disagree with you completely.
blueberries Posted August 17, 2010 Posted August 17, 2010 hands down, definitely #2. who wouldn't want an obese slob who watches porn all day!?
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