fivefive Posted August 15, 2010 Posted August 15, 2010 Ok, first things first, I am NOT a creep at all. But right now I feel like one. Last night after a party I was on my phone and using Facebook. I stumbled upon my ex-girl's page. I haven't talked to her in 10 months and I am not FB friends with her. For some reason her page was not private and I was just scrolling through her page when I accidentally liked one of her statuses. I quickly realized my mistake and unliked it. Idk if she received a notification but I believe the person does get one when you do this. But how would you feel if someone you haven't talked to in 10 months, that you went out with, did this ? I feel like such a creep right now.
a_woman Posted August 15, 2010 Posted August 15, 2010 first I would go 'sh*t my privacy settings are off' and then depending on how we parted I would be either pleased or indifferent. maybe I would check out your profile in return. I wouldn't think you are a creep though. I'm not sure about notifications
LondonS Posted August 15, 2010 Posted August 15, 2010 1.You cant atually "like" someone's status unless they are your friends 2. If you unlike it, the notification dissapears 3. There are normally no "like" notifications sent via email by FB so relax..she will not find out.. next time stay away from phone and computer when drunk...
Green Posted August 15, 2010 Posted August 15, 2010 You shouldn't have unliked the status... who cares she probably does it to you
Author fivefive Posted August 15, 2010 Author Posted August 15, 2010 1.You cant atually "like" someone's status unless they are your friends 2. If you unlike it, the notification dissapears 3. There are normally no "like" notifications sent via email by FB so relax..she will not find out.. next time stay away from phone and computer when drunk... Her settings had it so that EVERYONE could comment. She probably forgot to do her privacy settings. Because had i wanted to, i couldve commented her as well. And r u sure the notification disappears?
Green Posted August 15, 2010 Posted August 15, 2010 Her settings had it so that EVERYONE could comment. She probably forgot to do her privacy settings. Because had i wanted to, i couldve commented her as well. And r u sure the notification disappears? The notification will probably be there... look if she confronts you about it just say your friend was over and did it to piss you off when you left facebook open. Then when she asks which friend just say "forget it" Personaly who cares, I should go find my ex's page and randomly click Like on something just to mess with her... only problem is that would be anoying to me and probably anoy my current gf so I'll pass. Just don't worry about it... and stop looking at her page for god sakes she is ur ex... block her
LondonS Posted August 15, 2010 Posted August 15, 2010 Her settings had it so that EVERYONE could comment. She probably forgot to do her privacy settings. Because had i wanted to, i couldve commented her as well. And r u sure the notification disappears? yes they dissapear.. most def.. relax
meerkat stew Posted August 15, 2010 Posted August 15, 2010 Ten months? NBD. People take FB way way too seriously in my opinion. Wouldn't worry yourself at all.
Ilovecake Posted August 16, 2010 Posted August 16, 2010 1.You cant atually "like" someone's status unless they are your friends Wrong depends on how the page is set by the owner. 2. If you unlike it, the notification dissapears Again wrong. Her news feed will say you marked that you liked something on her page then it will say you unliked it, but if she looks on her profile she will not see what it was you liked and unliked.
LondonS Posted August 16, 2010 Posted August 16, 2010 Wrong depends on how the page is set by the owner. Again wrong. Her news feed will say you marked that you liked something on her page then it will say you unliked it, but if she looks on her profile she will not see what it was you liked and unliked. No idea about the new FB format but the old days when we could see the "sent" notifications, I unliked something and the notification did dissapear.. perhaps not an option now..
zengirl Posted August 16, 2010 Posted August 16, 2010 This is not creepy. FB actively directs you to people you "might" know and based on email addresses and common friends, I'm assuming she could easily be one of them. I wouldn't find it odd at all if a fellow found me on FB. It's not the same as calling someone up. It's only FB. Really, don't worry about it, OP.
Author fivefive Posted August 17, 2010 Author Posted August 17, 2010 Idk. I just feel like if an ex did that to me and I didn't have them as friends on FB, I would be like "Wow, this girl must be stalking me." Ughhh, I feel like such an idiot.
Green Posted August 17, 2010 Posted August 17, 2010 Idk. I just feel like if an ex did that to me and I didn't have them as friends on FB, I would be like "Wow, this girl must be stalking me." Ughhh, I feel like such an idiot. Stalking... creep... what are you? a "girl" perhaps? You use all the vocab women do to put down men but you use it onyourself... why are you so hard on yourself... so what if some ex of yours thinks your a creep ... why do you even care.
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