Green Posted August 13, 2010 Posted August 13, 2010 Yes, very lame to ask. Glad you agree The thread is called "Signs she wants to be kissed? Best time/environment?" A GREAT sign she wants to be kissed is she made herself available by doing something alone with you on a social basis. Best time/evironment is anytime/anywhere before the date is over. JUST DO IT
ConflictedGuy27 Posted August 13, 2010 Posted August 13, 2010 A GREAT sign she wants to be kissed is she made herself available by doing something alone with you on a social basis. Best time/evironment is anytime/anywhere before the date is over. JUST DO IT well said.
Author somedude81 Posted August 13, 2010 Author Posted August 13, 2010 (edited) A GREAT sign she wants to be kissed is she made herself available by doing something alone with you on a social basis. Sadly, no. I've hung out with several girls who weren't interested in me. They were called friends. The problem is that most girls don't tell you when you've shifted into the undatable friendzone or if you were even dateable in the first place. Of course, try to get physical and her response will tell you how she thinks of you. I wish somebody would post about which date activities are the best suited to kissing a girl. I'm sure the time of day has an affect as well. Edited August 13, 2010 by somedude81
homersheineken Posted August 13, 2010 Posted August 13, 2010 Sadly, no. I've hung out with several girls who weren't interested in me. They were called friends. The problem is that most girls don't tell you when you've shifted into the undatable friendzone or if you were even dateable in the first place. Of course, try to get physical and her response will tell you how she thinks of you. I wish somebody would post about which date activities are the best suited to kissing a girl. I'm sure the time of day has an affect as well. Sorry dude, but you're making this much too complicated. You're overthinking this and that's not romantic. Spontaneity is. Green's already given some good pointers to look for, so use them.
Eclypse Posted August 14, 2010 Posted August 14, 2010 (edited) I know exactly how you feel op. I was there till a few months ago. I'd been out with a few girls but never managed to kiss them in a date setting. I'd done it drunk before but my memories of that are hazy With my gf it was on our second date that we kissed. I'd had plenty of romantic oppertunities but I was too shy to go in. Finally it was near the end of the date and we were on a busy street (not the beat place!) I just bit the bullet and stopped her and looked into her eyes. Then I sort of began moving closer to her lips. When she saw me doing that she began moving in closer too and we just kissed and it wasn't awkward at all. So I guess the key is to stop her and look at her and move in a bit. If she doesn't back off you know she's going to let you kiss her. Of course I was fairly sure she wouldn't reject me because shed let me hold her Hans previously. Good luck! Edited August 14, 2010 by Eclypse Spelling
Green Posted August 14, 2010 Posted August 14, 2010 Sadly, no. I've hung out with several girls who weren't interested in me. They were called friends. The problem is that most girls don't tell you when you've shifted into the undatable friendzone or if you were even dateable in the first place. Of course, try to get physical and her response will tell you how she thinks of you. I wish somebody would post about which date activities are the best suited to kissing a girl. I'm sure the time of day has an affect as well. I think I'm making progress with you and then you write this CRAP. Pretty girls who you want romanticly are NOT YOUR FRIEND. If they agree to go somewhere a lone with you like the movies or a resteraunt... or even for a walk just the two of you... that is a romantic oportunity... I'm not saying you will suceed but it is your chance to make a move... AND YOU HAVE NO REASON NOT TO... JUST DO IT. Stop letting your mind CAGE you. Be free, be yourself. Sorry dude, but you're making this much too complicated. You're overthinking this and that's not romantic. Spontaneity is. Green's already given some good pointers to look for, so use them. All he does is overthink. But he is so close... I must not give up hope. If only he would snap out of denial. I think he will snap out of it and get a lot of confidence if he just kiss's a few girls. I know exactly how you feel op. I was there till a few months ago. I'd been out with a few girls but never managed to kiss them in a date setting. I'd done it drunk before but my memories of that are hazy With my gf it was on our second date that we kissed. I'd had plenty of romantic oppertunities but I was too shy to go in. Finally it was near the end of the date and we were on a busy street (not the beat place!) I just bit the bullet and stopped her and looked into her eyes. Then I sort of began moving closer to her lips. When she saw me doing that she began moving in closer too and we just kissed and it wasn't awkward at all. So I guess the key is to stop her and look at her and move in a bit. If she doesn't back off you know she's going to let you kiss her. Of course I was fairly sure she wouldn't reject me because shed let me hold her Hans previously. Good luck! What does it matter if she would reject you. You took a chance an it made your day... week... year maybe.
mixwell Posted August 14, 2010 Posted August 14, 2010 I'm a bit slow when it comes to reading a girl's signals. What are some things a girl would do when she wants a guy to kiss her? Does it matter what time the date is or what the activity was? Does alcohol make a difference? Here is something to F up most of the replies.. I went on date 1 with my ex and nothing.. Date 2 I went for the kiss and got infamous cheek turn and when I called her out on it i got a kiss on the cheek then on date 3 I fked her so go figure. She was at my house and asked for a back rub and i said ok only after I get a kiss.. so we kiss, i give her a 1/2 arsed massaged and we kept progressing until we banged one out so who knows.. I guess depends on the mood the chick is in ? I would definately just go in for the kiss and IF you get the infamous cheek turn I would call her out on it and try to press her but hell I'm sure it's a different scenario.
Green Posted August 14, 2010 Posted August 14, 2010 Here is something to F up most of the replies.. I went on date 1 with my ex and nothing.. Date 2 I went for the kiss and got infamous cheek turn and when I called her out on it i got a kiss on the cheek then on date 3 I fked her so go figure. She was at my house and asked for a back rub and i said ok only after I get a kiss.. so we kiss, i give her a 1/2 arsed massaged and we kept progressing until we banged one out so who knows.. I guess depends on the mood the chick is in ? I would definately just go in for the kiss and IF you get the infamous cheek turn I would call her out on it and try to press her but hell I'm sure it's a different scenario. Dude you TRIED to kiss your ex. Just because she gave you the cheek turn doesn't mean that she didn't take into acount that you had balls and TRIED to KISS her even if she turned her cheek. Calling people out is pointless unless you do it in some fun teasing way. No point in getting upset about it. I'm guessing you called her out in a way that was cool... instead of calling her out in a way that would make you seem needy.
SpanksTheMonkey Posted August 14, 2010 Posted August 14, 2010 IME, she proactively places herself in close proximity. She usually looks directly into your eyes and sometimes glances down briefly. She may lick her lips, showing some tongue action (of course very subtly), leaving them a bit glistening. I dealt with your issue for many years. Finally, I came to the conclusion that, if it feels right and I want to kiss her, I just do. No hesitation. This, IME, gives her confidence, both in her attractiveness and my desire. It's actually comforting. Good luck I think cars got it covered listen to him hes wise..I also wouldn't try to evolve to much alcohol in your relationship/dating early on sure it lessens the inhibitions but you want a relationship not a ONS right? Well those take work and thats hard to do right when your both half loaded also who needs the after thoughts of did I do that just cause I was drunk? Na leave the booze out for now anyways. By the way congrats sumdude nice to see you have a decent romantic prospect last I saw you were continually striking out..
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