Did I miss out on a opportunity to get her number or was she just making convo?

[PhillyDude]

Yesterday I was buying some food at a local market and when I arrived at the counter the femlale cashier who was in my age range saw that I was buying chocalate chip ice cream cookies and she said

 

"OMG these are soooo good and I eat them all the time. Now you have me wanting to buy one of those too."

 

 

The only thing I said was-"yeah this is my first time trying these so I will see how they are"

 

 

 

Do you think she wanted more of a conversation from me or just making conversation?

[Engadget]

You could have steered it towards that, yeah. Without being there it's tough to tell but she may not have been offering it up, you would just have to direct it that way.

[PhillyDude]

You could have steered it towards that, yeah. Without being there it's tough to tell but she may not have been offering it up, you would just have to direct it that way.

 

I know I was just coming from the barbershop and your hair looks a lot different when you are fresh out the chair than it does the next day. So I was thinking that played a part in it her striking conversation.

[alexlakeman]

Do you reallyyyy want to date a cashier?

[kalikula]

Sounds to me like she might just be an outgoing/friendly person..

[PhillyDude]

Do you reallyyyy want to date a cashier?

 

 

I wouldn't mind playing with a cashier

[Green]

What does it matter if she liked you. If you liked her is all that should matter.

 

You obviously do like her so yes you missed an easy opening to ask her out. Seriously even if she wasn't into you she might have felt guilty for saying the ice cream thing and just said yes to a date.

 

"why don't you let me take you out for ice cream" then you get her number and take her out.

 

tsk tsk for being so scared

[Feelin Frisky]

Sounds to me like she might just be an outgoing/friendly person..

 

Yeah. I get that all the time. It doesn't mean anything. Some people are just outging and try to enjoy their jobs working with the public.

 

BTW, I did date and have a relationship with a cashier. She was a smoking European-looking girl from Cali Columbia. But it wasn't after I bought my first sandwich at the place she worked. She telegraphed a few times that she had it for me. I asked her one day if she got a break and had lunch with her. It turned into a nice little romance for a while until I found her quite stiff in the sack and not at all committed to me. She was a leetle player but I loved that few months of my life with her. Very femine and kitty cat cute.

[jamesum]

She is the cashier dude!

 

I used to be a cashier and I like to talk to the customers, too!

[PhillyDude]

She is the cashier dude!

 

I used to be a cashier and I like to talk to the customers, too!

 

 

And I was the food server at my college campus and enjoyed chatting with hot girls who came to my line. Not guys or unattractive women

[jadedone]

Girls are much more likely to be friendly to all customers. That being said, you should have offered to share with her and get her number.

[zengirl]

Yesterday I was buying some food at a local market and when I arrived at the counter the femlale cashier who was in my age range saw that I was buying chocalate chip ice cream cookies and she said

 

"OMG these are soooo good and I eat them all the time. Now you have me wanting to buy one of those too."

 

 

The only thing I said was-"yeah this is my first time trying these so I will see how they are"

 

 

 

Do you think she wanted more of a conversation from me or just making conversation?

 

It is impossible to know from that. I suppose tone/body language matters a lot to judge if it is flirting, but even then, who can tell by this? When I worked retail back in my younger days, I talked to everybody. I didn't flirt with everyone, but I'm fairly vivacious. I almost never encountered a fellow I wanted to have my number while working.

 

It seems like it would be awkward to ask if it's the first time you've met her and she's working. I'm not a fan of people hitting on gals while they're working because (a) it's happened to me and felt really uncomfortable (because I'm in a position where I'm forced to be "nice" for my job and rejecting someone conflicts, so it feels like someone is in my space, to a degree) and (b) I know lots of gals who've discussed feeling the same. It tends to feel predatory even when someone doesn't mean it to.

 

I wouldn't advise asking working-people out (while they're working) unless you get pretty major vibes. And even then take rejection easily.

[jamesum]

And I was the food server at my college campus and enjoyed chatting with hot girls who came to my line. Not guys or unattractive women

Lol, you are right.

 

But female cashiers tend to be chattier. They will talk to anyone from toddlers to the elderly.

 

Did she only make a convo with you or to other customers as well? And if she liked you she would also make the look while talking to you.