jeffery Posted August 6, 2010 Posted August 6, 2010 right my girlfriend who for the past three weeks has been amazing n we have had some wicked days out and nights...we have been together officially for three weeks, she seemed quiet today and she texted me this "its not you,your probably one of the nicest blokes i've ever met, i just don't want to ruin it by rushing into things as i have in the past. i haven't been on my own for more than 2months since i was 14 and think im still finding myself (shes 20 now). since everything happened with her and jay (her ex) i struggle with opening up to people as i'm afraid of being hurt, please don't think its anything you have done, i just done feel emotionally stable yet,some days im ok some im not. xxx" now what do i do? is this basically saying your nice but im not into you?? or do i just back off? thanks
jadedone Posted August 6, 2010 Posted August 6, 2010 Who brought up the idea of making the relationship official? If you did then her behavior makes sense, and she might be feeling a little suffocated. Just ease back on the contact. When you do talk to her avoid using the pet names like sweetie, hun, babe, etc.. Act as if you were never official and still playing the take taking it slow to figure each other out stage.
bac Posted August 6, 2010 Posted August 6, 2010 IMO Sounds like a drama queen:). Anyway, she is immature, nobody probably knows what she wants including herself. Girls have periods and their moods jump up and down all the time. No one can do anything about it except that hopefully with time she can learn how to handle her moods, periods. You can tell her that you understand her feelings and respect them. Let her know that anytime she wants to come back she is welcome. She might change her mood and perception in a while, so, she would like to come back for a while.
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