gungho Posted August 6, 2010 Posted August 6, 2010 Not really where I should start but since I'm new I'll tell a little about myself so you'll can get an idea where I'm coming from. I'm currently 25, and I've had one girlfriend in my life so far. It was when I was 16 and back in highschool, lasted a couple of weeks, nothing too serious. I've always been told that I'm a very good person, I'm polite and respectful, even to strangers. It's not really my personality that I feel is unatractive, it's me physically. I am overweight, something I've been working on for the past year (down 30 lbs. so far!). I do eat Subway about 2-3 times a week. The one I go into there's been this new young women working there and like I treat everyone, I just went in there with a smile and would say hi, ask them how they're doing, talk to them about random things. This women that I've become attracted to has been just as friendly back, which kind of took me by surprise because a lot of times I'm not treated as friendly as I treat others. I believe she might be interested because everytime I walk through the doors and she's working she gets a big smile on her face and her voice has this excited tone to it. So I'd like to ask her out and this is where I'm needing the advice. I've heard it's a big no-no to ask a women out while they're working, as they've got to keep waiting on you, it's there job. Also, I understand I'd have to do it during one of those moments when I'm the only customer there as that could get awkward for both of us. Any ideas how I can go about this?
Thierro Posted August 6, 2010 Posted August 6, 2010 (edited) It really doesn’t matter how you approach this situation. Don’t be needy or caring about the way she will respond. Just do it the way you feel like doing it. You are the price, right? You can think of a great way to bring it up or just do it in a spontaneous way. Don't force it. ‘You have some mad sandwich-making-skills. Give me a call so you can secretly tell me how to make them. I always burn my toast in the morning, so I need some advice.’ *give her the phone number* If she turns a great catch like you down; just smile. The only reason she would turn you down is because she is an egoistic self-centered woman that doesn’t want to share good food with others or gets fired by doing so. So no hard feelings. Edited August 6, 2010 by Thierro
Author gungho Posted August 6, 2010 Author Posted August 6, 2010 Thanks Thierro. I'm not sure if I'll use your line or not, most likely not, but I appreciate the opinion. I'm just going to push this to the back of my mind for now, and stop dwelling on it. That's usually what happens to me is that I over think how a women might respond and I run through all the possibilities in my mind that when I actually start something and it goes differently then I imagined I get nervous and end up screwing up my chances. If anyone else has opinions on rather or not it's kosier to ask a young lady out while they're working I'm interested in hearing them.
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