Men, If You Had No Sex Drive, You Think You Would Still Care As Much About Dating?

[You'reasian]

It's a chicken and egg thing. Personally, I don't find many women very interesting companions other than the sexual aspect, they seem totally self-absorbed, vain, lack wit, poor taste in general. But then again, I don't find many men very interesting companions for the same exact reasons

 

Classy, beautiful, intelligent and caring women are hard to find, especially in small city areas.

[jamesum]

And women? Do you not think they are not sexually driven to find a partner? Think again if so!

I never said they are not. But they have much less drive. The urge is less. The reason men are the ones who approach women is because they want it more and they realize that unless they make a move nothing is gonna happen and they are gonna lose out to other men.

 

One thing is for sure, the world would become a disaster. Committment, the family unit, devotion, all these things would go down the toilet.

I could care less if that happens honestly.

 

Women would care less too without sexual drive. Why wash a man's underwear except for trade, say, he brings me a good chunk of meat.

Barbaric, no?

Err, women have been marrying men in exchange for 'resources' since the dawn of time.

 

Other than sexual access, men have much less (not zero) incentives to be with a woman. We dont need protection and provision.

 

When I see a woman, all I care about are her beauty and her personality. I dont care if she is weak, has no status or even homeless. So if I had no sexual need, then the beauty part would be irrelevant also and personality would be the only thing left. Now if all I needed was a companion with good personality, then I could just get a best friend and it doesnt have be a woman. Besides, I get along better with fellow men anyway.

 

This thread reminds me of two things, the first being stay away from men whose motivations boil down to sex EVERYTIME, and rarely intimacy and friendship. Secondly it reminds me to take good care sexually of a man when I have a good one.

Im not saying sex is the only thing a man cares about.

 

Im just saying its the strongest factor that urges MOST men to proactively look for a partner.

 

Without libido, men would just be more like women. They would simply sit back waiting for someone to come around.

 

If I had zero sex drive, I'd probably have a ton of female friends. Dating would be irrelevant. Heh, my life would be pretty different if I stopped trying to screw every girl I knew.

Yeah, I think its gonna be awesome.