Green Posted August 6, 2010 Posted August 6, 2010 First: Do we know the OP is a guy? You responded to two different people. . . but you'e right about the 100% proof. I agreed wholeheartedly. I see very little wrong with the way you write it here. You write it a bit aggressive and over the top earlier and elsewhere on the board. I understand you're doing a whole from one extreme to another thing to a degree, but I'm just pointing out the essence of balance. Just. . . it's not about the romance you want with a completely tunnel-vision mentality. That balance is key. Do we really know if any one on here is a guy or girl? No not unless we know them... But the op and any one interested in learning from this is a guy. The 100% proof relates to how a guy has to ask a girl out and doesn't want to be rejected. Personaly I could care less if a girl even knows who I am because when I'm single I don't fear rejection when aproaching a girl. Like I posted earlier in this thread I made an entire thread of my own about how to 100% know if a girl likes you... basicaly just ask her out and find out. Not that you have to give up on just one no... but you get the picture. Balance is to abstract. They need to figure the balance out for themselves. What I can tell them is KISS... face your fear... then they have to figure out the rest. The reason they even think they have a problem in the first place is the fear. The fact is even with my confidence I screw up with women... but I just don't view it as a problem cause I couldn't care less. They view it as the end of the world if some girl thinks they are a creep or what ever
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