nothing past 1st date -90% of time

[joel]

I'm 30 and havent had serious relationship ever before, i started dating late in life and meeting and being social with the opposite sex. hmm maybe around 26.

so far i have dated and met a few through online dating sites and also randomly at coffee shops, library, malls, or even walk down the street. ehhe.

 

the thing is 90% of the dates i get end up being just a one time coffee date or walk in park and nothing more. they dont want to see me anymore--no 2nd, 3rd,4th. 5th.......etc date or even relationship. i phone em for 2nd date and they either give excuses-busy,have plans already, studying witha friend or just say no interested. -another said i was boring.

 

the longest i had was like 5 dates till she said we have to break up.

 

this happens with asian girls local to vancouver and esl asian girls who just come to vancouver to study for 1 yr. i'm a asian guy

 

typical converstaion be like-your job, what u do on weekend, hobbies, travelling.....etc whatever

 

funny thing is i really like to now why??? why is this happening? is it a common thing. are girls that hard to please and very picky

[jadedone]

Don't talk about job, hobbies, favorite music. etc.. They have had that same conversation a million times. Pick a bad reality show and talk about how stupid those people are. Tell some original stories about something funny that has happened to you.