airjordan Posted August 4, 2010 Posted August 4, 2010 Hey everyone, There was this girl I was dating and she chose this other guy over me. The reason why was because this dude was saying he loved her, that he's loved her for a long time. She wasn't even aware of it, he lives in a different state, she wasn't aware of this until he found her on facebook, and he declared his love for her. I don't understand how she fell for a guy who she doesn't really know because he said he was in love with her and that he'll take care of her forever. I didn't want to say I loved her.... because I would be bull****ting. Who does that???? It seems like he stalked her and knew everything about her since they went to the same college, she didn't know at all, only saw him walking in the halls. 5 years later.....he wants to marry her and this is the first time they actually had contact. Is this guy crazy???? i just want her to be careful even though she chose him over me.
a_woman Posted August 4, 2010 Posted August 4, 2010 yes he is crazy and she is pretty immature to fall for something like that. I'm sure she is in no danger after all he has been around for 5 years it's just that a big disappointment is waiting for her
CollectiveVelvet Posted August 4, 2010 Posted August 4, 2010 Perhaps they had mutual crushes during collage? All-in-all her relationship with the OP was not strong enough to withstand even just an internet romance. Best to just move along OP there's nothing left to see at this show. Good luck!
meerkat stew Posted August 4, 2010 Posted August 4, 2010 Odds are all the "ILY" tale with the other guy was a polite blowoff on her part, just accept it and move on. On the chance it's true, you don't want a woman who is so easily swayed by stuff like that.
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