fwang Posted August 3, 2010 Posted August 3, 2010 English is my second language, but I am trying to tell the story from the beginning to the end. First, I would like to introduce myself a little bit. I am 5.9 feet, 125 pounds, Asian, hot and sexy(that's what people tell me). I moved from city A to city B because of the internship. I have been single for almost 1.5 years because I am picky. Also, sometimes, I have a kind of stuck-up attitude. I met this guy who is 15 years older than me in a bar, and we hit it off very well. We kept talking for like 2 hours, and then he walked me back to my car and asked for my number. He texted me for the next 5 days, and then asked me out for dinner. I was asked to drive to his place and waited him for almost 20 minutes. Our dinner time was great. we had a very good conversation. After the dinner, I was asked to have a look at his condo located in the downtown. I went there, stayed for half an hour and then left. This is our first date, no kiss and no hug. The next days, we dated 4 times in 5 days. I met his friends, had dinner with him, stayed in his apartment. But no sex. I really was attracted to this guy. He is in good shape, sexy, smart and has a decent job. I am not a gold digger, but I might have a thing for successful guys. In the second week, we dated 2 times in 5 days. But suddenly, he stopped contacting with me. And also, I didn't contact with him at all. So generally speaking, we cut each other off after the last date. 12 days pasted. We met in the same bar again. He was with his friends, and I was with mine. We hit it off again, kissed all the time. I told him that I missed him a lot and I was so confused by what happened. We were a kind of reconciled. We went back to his condo, made out and finally had sex. Next day morning, I tried to play cool so I didn't initiate to text him. However, he texted me. Everything has returned to where it started. 5 dates in 10 days. I know that we are a kind of FWB. I also know that he is seeing other girls on weekend. But I am pretty satisfied with where we are. I am so lonely in City B cuz I don't know anybody there. I just need a company. Also, I can feel that his emotiom walls are down day by day. He has 15 years more experience than me, and he would know anything if I wanna play tricks. So I choose to be myself in front of him. Then, after 10 days, yesterday, he stopped answering my call again. Sunday we still talked on the phone and texted. And when I got off from work at 9 pm at night on Monday, I called him, hoping to have a short talk. He never picked up the damn phone. Today, I called one time and nobody answered. I never meet this kind of person in my life. The first time when we broke up, I was a kind of sad. But this time, I felt nothing because I didn't expect anything from him. Here some conclusions I made from this 1 month fling. 1. One thing about dating an old guy is that you have to catch up with his schedule all the time. And since the old guy has more life experience than you, don't expect that he would change his fixed lifestyle for you. It's never gonna happen. 2. If you don't feel right or happy at the beginning, then things will never work out. 3. A 38 years old guy who never get married and always talks ****s about all his ex girlfriends has some issues. I was so obsessed with him that I ignored some many red flags. It makes me feel good by typing the whole story.
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