GordonDarkfoot Posted August 3, 2010 Posted August 3, 2010 OK so the consensus is, if I've given or received oral, or it there's been penetration even without ejaculation, that "counts"? Yay my number just went up quite a bit.
Els Posted August 4, 2010 Posted August 4, 2010 For me it's easy. Sex is anything I'd physically do with another woman which involved the use of the primary male/female sexual organs. This would include, but not be limited to, intercourse, cunnilingus, fellatio, handjobs, fingering, anal sex. Examples of acts I do not count as 'sex' would be passionate kissing, clothed 'dry humping', 'feeling someone up', again clothed, and aural sexual intimacies (dirty talk). This delineation is exclusive of what I determine to be healthy and acceptable in a monogamous intimate relationship, wrt acts with another person. In that case, unacceptable would be what my partner and I agreed it to be. Number = four, based on the above criteria. One unacceptable behavior. This. I don't get how people can say oral/anal sex isn't sex. Uh, yeah, and black sheep aren't sheep ey?
Stung Posted August 4, 2010 Posted August 4, 2010 ... or it there's been penetration even without ejaculation, that "counts"? . I should think so. I'm pretty sure men still usually count penetration as sex when the woman doesn't come...or else everybody's tally just went down.
IntoTemptation Posted August 4, 2010 Posted August 4, 2010 I think it's all forms of sex to be honest. It's called "oral sex" and even just touching is sexual. Of course male-female penetration is what a lot of people class as "sex" but I think it's all a form of sex - maybe that is just "full sex". Anyway, what about gay couples? Women can just touch and do oral, and that's "sex" for them, because no man is involved. 2 men... they could just do that (doesn't have to be penetration) and that would still be "sex".
K'aycie Posted August 4, 2010 Posted August 4, 2010 Sex = Sex is a physical act of intimate touching or penetration that can result in biological reproduction and/or feelings of intimacy. While "sex" can refer to intercourse between a man and a woman, it can also describe other acts, including anal sex, oral sex, and can refer to homosexual encounters, as well as heterosexual encounters.
Untouchable_Fire Posted August 4, 2010 Posted August 4, 2010 If I were to count oral, giving and receiving, my tally would be significantly higher Seriously? Should I count all the parnters that I have had oral sex with only as sex? What about hand jobs? I mean where do you draw the line? Do you work as a massage therapist by chance?
Feelin Frisky Posted August 4, 2010 Posted August 4, 2010 Sex is the next step after kissing, hickey giving, feeling up, dry humpng, toe sucking, knee-cap biting. It's intercourse or oral or even tossing a salad.
Shakz Posted August 4, 2010 Posted August 4, 2010 To me sex is anything you do with another person that you wouldn't feel comfortable having you're mom know about. For example, I'm comfortable with my Mom knowing I tongue kiss my GF. Having her know that I do the same thing to my GF's sphincter, not so much.
SadandConfusedWA Posted August 4, 2010 Posted August 4, 2010 Do you work as a massage therapist by chance? Nah. I date a lot and am still looking for the right guy.
Feelin Frisky Posted August 4, 2010 Posted August 4, 2010 To me sex is anything you do with another person that you wouldn't feel comfortable having you're mom know about. For example, I'm comfortable with my Mom knowing I tongue kiss my GF. Having her know that I do the same thing to my GF's sphincter, not so much. Hahahahahaha! Wish I had said that instead of tossing a salad.
Untouchable_Fire Posted August 4, 2010 Posted August 4, 2010 Nah. I date a lot and am still looking for the right guy. I tend to be fairly conservative about things like this, and I see no problem with the way your doing things. I hope you find that right guy!
Gattica Posted August 5, 2010 Posted August 5, 2010 I count penetration and oral. So, when a woman asks you fellas how many women you have slept with, do you include the women that have performed oral sex on you BUT you did not perform oral sex on her or have intercourse with her?
carhill Posted August 5, 2010 Posted August 5, 2010 So, when a woman asks you fellas how many women you have slept with, do you include the women that have performed oral sex on you BUT you did not perform oral sex on her or have intercourse with her? For me, sure. That dynamic has never occurred, but it would be 'sex' to me if it did. I don't 'sleep' with women, rather 'make love' with them. We sleep later
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