DontWorryBHappy Posted July 30, 2010 Posted July 30, 2010 Short version: - Girl meets guy - They fall for each other and have a great relationship for 1 and a half months. - Out of nowhere the guy goes from acting head-over-heels to distant - Girl tries to find out what the deal is - Guy reluctantly says he can't do a relationship because he doesn't have time to do so with school... so he breaks up with her. - Girl takes break up very well, and guy panics.... wants girl back the next day. - Girl tells him NO, get your **** together first, and if you still want to be together and if you're serious, we can after that. - Guy changes his mind after that and decides that he "has no intention of dating right now." However, he tells the girl that he'd ask her out as soon as he's ready to date. - Girl decides to keep talking to the guy... which she discovers was a dumb idea. - Guy invites girl to watch him play soccer... but then the guy says, "hey, how bout we go see a movie instead." - Girl goes for her debit card but guy pays for her ticket anyway.... they hold hands in the theater. It feels like a date. - Guy kisses girl at the end of the night, immediately says "I couldn't help myself" and apologizes for it later. - Girl decides the situation is ****ed up and tells the guy (a couple days later) that she can't talk to him anymore, can't wait for him, and to only talk to her if he decides he's serious (and that's if she's even available when he's ready!) - Guy complains that it's hard to not text the girl. Ends up saying "I hope someone else comes along that gives you all you deserve" The end. I'm the girl. my ex is the guy. This is a rant.
summerl0vesyou Posted July 31, 2010 Posted July 31, 2010 Sorta sounds like one of my exes... way too much back and forth and drama BS....hope you stay away!
Mike B. Posted July 31, 2010 Posted July 31, 2010 You may have told him something during your one and a half months together that disturbs him yet he still is attracted to you. Quite common. Anyway, it may always disturb him so let him have his breather.
EasyHeart Posted July 31, 2010 Posted July 31, 2010 It sounds like a classic push-pull situation. He wants you for a girlfriend, but he doesn't want to put anything into the relationship. As soon as you ask for something from him, he pushes you away. But then when you go away, he wants you back. Run away. Find someone who wants the same things you do from a relationship.
zengirl Posted July 31, 2010 Posted July 31, 2010 Yeah, I think that one should go like this: Guy likes girl. Guy likes kissing girl, etc. Guy doesn't want to invest in the relationship. Guy acts like yo-yo. Girl likes guy until guy starts acting crazy. Girl realizes guy is not making her happy with his yo-yo "I don't know what I want crap." Girl stops returning guy's calls. Girl feels better. Someday. . . Girl meets new guy.
Serenitynow Posted July 31, 2010 Posted July 31, 2010 I feel relieved thought maybe that headline was referring to me lol
Author DontWorryBHappy Posted August 1, 2010 Author Posted August 1, 2010 Several hours ago he text me: "My birthday is tomorrow...." I deleted it immediately. I already knew his birthday was tomorrow, but obviously wasn't planning to acknowledge it. I told him quite clearly the last time we talked that unless I got a message from him that says he wants to be serious, I likely would not respond at all. Yet he's still trying to reel me in..... I suppose he thought I would temporarily let go of my resolve to not talk to him in order to wish him a happy b-day? I guess this is a classic case of wanting to have the cake and eat it too. :/
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