Soul Bear Posted July 30, 2010 Posted July 30, 2010 Getting over someone you loved/liked a lot has to be one of the most liberating feelings in the world. That's twice in a year and a half I have got through this crap. I remember looking on my recent ex's facebook for the first time in about 4 months lastnight I was so nervous...and when I looked I felt nothing!...even when I saw her harping on about how great her new bf is with sly remarks I presume designed to have a dig at me...I don't even find her attractive anymore! The way she treated me was ugly. One thing that did piss me off rotten tho (for all of about 5 minutes) was the fact she wished my dad a happy birthday and ignored mine a few days ago I can see through that crap tho...I *think* But too the point, it always seems when you get over them, learn some lessons and learn about yourself a little more, that someone twice as amazing pops into your life...or in my case two people have popped in and left me with a coin toss
SassyKitten Posted July 30, 2010 Posted July 30, 2010 I hope I'll be there soon, I'm still at the point where I'll stumble across a photo of him I thought I had deleted and get emotional. But then I'm taking a much needed trip in a week, which will hopefully be the release I need!
Author Soul Bear Posted July 30, 2010 Author Posted July 30, 2010 All I can say, Kitty-Kat, is that you must know your worth. I know it's not as easy as that, and far easier said than done...but you have practice affirmations in your head. The power of being positive is the key. If they have destroyed you, then rebuild yourself! It takes time and hard work, but at the end of you will ALL WAYS come out stronger and better than ever before. Think of yourself as a prize...they just didn't know how to unwrap it, and in doing so, they have actually increased your worth tenfold
SassyKitten Posted July 30, 2010 Posted July 30, 2010 Thank you for the kind words. It is liberating not being around him, but I still feel sad. So I figure take life's lemons and make lemonade, and if I was still with him, I wouldn't have a chance to go check out Montreal for the first time next week like I'm going to be doing. And it's definitely healing to go do things you wouldn't have been able to do if the other person was still tying you down!
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