red shoes Posted July 25, 2010 Posted July 25, 2010 How interested is a guy, who lives in the same town as you and you know the feeling is rather mutual, if he asks you out once every few weeks with some communication in between? Would guys go out with girls and pays for dinner if they're not interested?
Author red shoes Posted July 25, 2010 Author Posted July 25, 2010 Anyone has any comments? Good or bad, it doesn't matter.
SassyKitten Posted July 25, 2010 Posted July 25, 2010 Unless he has a ridiculously, and I mean ridiculously busy schedule, then probably not interested, not in anything serious anyway.
Author red shoes Posted July 25, 2010 Author Posted July 25, 2010 Unless he has a ridiculously, and I mean ridiculously busy schedule, then probably not interested, not in anything serious anyway. Thanks. But why do guys spend time having dinner with girls then, if they aren't interested? Or do they do it out of friendship?
SassyKitten Posted July 25, 2010 Posted July 25, 2010 Could be pure friendship, could be friendship with benefits.
USMCHokie Posted July 25, 2010 Posted July 25, 2010 Thanks. But why do guys spend time having dinner with girls then, if they aren't interested? Or do they do it out of friendship? To keep you on the backburner. It's possible that he's dating other women he's more interested in and taking you out for the occasional dinner every few weeks as "maintenance" on you in case his other women don't work out. Go date other men.
Author red shoes Posted July 25, 2010 Author Posted July 25, 2010 To keep you on the backburner. It's possible that he's dating other women he's more interested in and taking you out for the occasional dinner every few weeks as "maintenance" on you in case his other women don't work out. Go date other men. OK. So he isn't taking it slow.
USMCHokie Posted July 25, 2010 Posted July 25, 2010 OK. So he isn't taking it slow. No, if a person is truly interested in you, he wouldn't wait weeks at a time to see you. If he was really that busy that he can't or won't see you more than that, then he's not dateable. LAUNCH.
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