0hpenelope Posted July 25, 2010 Posted July 25, 2010 what is "moobage?" Man boobage. Also goes by the following terms: chesticles, moobs, and man boobs.
zengirl Posted July 25, 2010 Posted July 25, 2010 (edited) No sex till I was 21, but I'm a girl, so I don't know if that helps at all. It's not really the same for both genders, sadly. A lot of people lose theirs between 18-22. If you hit mid-twenties, it will be more of an issue, except with the wait-till-marriage crowd, of course. Edited July 25, 2010 by zengirl
Green Posted July 25, 2010 Posted July 25, 2010 I'm in my late 30s and have not even been close. You have a lot of time at 19, so don't worry. However, you don't want to reach 30 and still be a virgin as sometime around then it will start to become a huge negative to many women. Girls won't even know your a virgin unless you tell them. Have you not seen the 40 year old virgin. then either beg your parents to pay for surgery and threaten suicide, hell try a phony suicide attempt, or save up the money or if you have a trust fund, invest in your existence. Clearly this means a lot to you or you wouldn't be on this forum right now. I almost coerced my folks into chin surgery until I lost weight. If there were a height surgery that could make me 5'7'' or more, I'd probably have had it by now because at 5'1" and male, its truly a profound disadvantage. I have a friend who is some where between 5'1 and 5'3 I'm not really sure never asked him... basicly he is short. I'm very tall. and he has alawys been able to get his fare share of women. By the way your advice that a teenage boy gets an uneeded operation by threatning suicide is really lacking. boo
TheWatcher Posted July 25, 2010 Posted July 25, 2010 No sex till I was 21, but I'm a girl, so I don't know if that helps at all. It's not really the same for both genders, sadly. In what sense is it not the same ? A lot of people lose theirs between 18-22. If you hit mid-twenties, it will be more of an issue, except with the wait-till-marriage crowd, of course. A growing number of men are involuntarily remaining virgins well into their mid to late 30's because they lack the self-esteem & confidence to approach a woman & be in a relationship.At that point being inexperienced becomes part of your identity.Also...some concede defeat...and rationalize their decision by saying...What's the point of losing my virginity/having a first kiss at such a late age ?
harmfulsweetz Posted July 25, 2010 Posted July 25, 2010 I was 16, to a guy from my college. There's nothing wrong with being a virgin at 19, so what? If a woman cares about that, they ain't what you're looking for. I sometimes wish I waited until around that age.
Author OrdealByFire Posted July 25, 2010 Author Posted July 25, 2010 It's not so much what they think, as much as how stupid I'd look my first time.
USMCHokie Posted July 25, 2010 Posted July 25, 2010 It's not so much what they think, as much as how stupid I'd look my first time. This is quite contradictory, yes...?
Author OrdealByFire Posted July 25, 2010 Author Posted July 25, 2010 This is quite contradictory, yes...? That was the goal.
gamma1 Posted July 25, 2010 Posted July 25, 2010 No sex till I was 21, but I'm a girl, so I don't know if that helps at all. It's not really the same for both genders, sadly. A lot of people lose theirs between 18-22. If you hit mid-twenties, it will be more of an issue, except with the wait-till-marriage crowd, of course. It will become a problem with some around 25. It will be a huge problem to most women around 30.
crfsti Posted July 25, 2010 Posted July 25, 2010 Your worried about this at age 19??? (you look 12 btw, which is a plus cause you'll still look 20 at the age of 30). I'm 27, and still haven't lost mine. I'm not saying i'm proud of that, but it is what it is. I've even been made fun of because of it, but people can think whatever they want, it's my life. I don't think you need to rush yourself to lose your virginity, the day will come...and hopefully it will make it that must better. just my $0.02 on the subject.
crfsti Posted July 25, 2010 Posted July 25, 2010 It will become a problem with some around 25. It will be a huge problem to most women around 30. Why? if anything, they will know your not a whore/man-whore who may have an STD(s).
Allisha Posted July 26, 2010 Posted July 26, 2010 OP, to be fair I don't have much to add apart from that you are CUTE. =]
Author OrdealByFire Posted July 26, 2010 Author Posted July 26, 2010 aw thanks Allisha. crfsti. yes. that. you'd THINK that they'd think that, but... they probably expect some kind of experience.
gamma1 Posted July 26, 2010 Posted July 26, 2010 (edited) Why? if anything, they will know your not a whore/man-whore who may have an STD(s). There seems to be virtually no logic when it comes to dating and relationships. There is almost nothing worse than being an older virgin to most women. Edited July 26, 2010 by gamma1
TheWatcher Posted July 26, 2010 Posted July 26, 2010 (edited) There seems to be virtually no logic when it comes to dating and relationships. There is almost nothing worse than being an older virgin to most women. Totally agree with you gamma.Its not something that you would want to reveal to a woman (lack of experience) A lot of women might wonder how is it possible to be 25 or 30 + and still be a virgin. A lot of them assume that since they're able to make connections with the opposite sex so easily....the same must hold true for men. Just based on anecdotal evidence...I think more men than women die alone & die virgins. OBF...I know that it may be hard at times but no need to worry as of yet.Start being concerned when you're my age or Gamma's....30's. You have a non-threatening look that appeal to a lot of women. in women... Edited July 26, 2010 by TheWatcher
Author OrdealByFire Posted July 26, 2010 Author Posted July 26, 2010 It's not paying off right now. It should when I'm 30. 40. 50. Right now people mistake me for a 14 year old. People jokingly say I look like Justin Bieber when I really, really don't.
Green Posted July 26, 2010 Posted July 26, 2010 It's not paying off right now. It should when I'm 30. 40. 50. Right now people mistake me for a 14 year old. People jokingly say I look like Justin Bieber when I really, really don't. Seriously, the only thing stoping you is yourself. First having sex is great but you look at it as some kind of proof of worthyness... it is not. Second you will probably get laid some time in the next few years. You really are worrying a little early. Finaly all you have to do is ASK OUT girls you find attractive... then just KISS them. its that easy
aerogurl87 Posted July 26, 2010 Posted July 26, 2010 I was two weeks shy of being 18 and lost it on my 6 month anniversary with my ex. I was sure we were gonna get married not because he was "the one", but because he was the only guy I could stomach being with long term that I knew would make my parents happy. But to be honest I wish I would've waited till I met my boyfriend whom I'm with now.
crfsti Posted July 26, 2010 Posted July 26, 2010 There seems to be virtually no logic when it comes to dating and relationships. There is almost nothing worse than being an older virgin to most women. Almost nothing worse???? You have to be kidding me!!! I can think of a hundred things worse than being a older virgin. Don't tell me most women are really that shallow, cause i sure as hell wouldn't hold it against a woman if she was still a virgin in her late 20's like myself or even older. They could be waiting for the right person to come along. As for myself, I haven't had any luck with the ladies yet, but know someday my day will come. Plus, I'm a fast learner anyways:p
Maggotface Posted July 26, 2010 Posted July 26, 2010 Ha.. I lost mine at the young age of 16 buuut I did end up marrying the man I lost it to so I guess it worked out. Granted we are divorced now, I have my beautiful little boy. I know you feel like you're too old to be a virgin but you're not it's just because you're around a lot of people who arnt virgins.
alyssatranswarrior Posted July 26, 2010 Posted July 26, 2010 (edited) The night I drew a face on the palm of my hand... ROFL thank you, I lol'd out loud. Even if its true im only laughing at how funny the line is, not at you!..If its true or a true story ----------------------- For me, I lost it with random girls I went on dates with outside my area. I used to ride to different places and mingle in malls with people and try meet girls and tag along with groups to parties. I used to take some cash so I had something extra to offer since I was a stranger. It worked a few times, and I got laid and made out a few times and learned about pleasing a girl. I was 15-17 when I had my most sex partners (handful). Then I had one or two casual partnerships when I was 19 that was more serious but only got sexual and no dating happened. Since then. Cold turkey. None. Been celibate 9 years not by preference. Got my trans issues took over, and I couldnt have sex with girls without them knowing about my inner self and it's tough to explain to girls I would be trying to attract (that I am a girl inside, not the male I look like) so i took to online stuff Got in a LTR when i was 22 with a girl and it was nice but Long distance too, so we didnt have sex for real and are now Good friends like we were before we got a relationship. I'd probly have less chance to attract girls than you, and I'm a confident and sexually experienced male body for girls (albeit without practise a while). You will get yours. Act manly but keep your innocence about you. The combination will endear you to females. Edited July 26, 2010 by alyssatranswarrior
mr_atticus Posted July 27, 2010 Posted July 27, 2010 I agree with an earlier post: it's not about when you lose it, but who you lose it to.
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