flowerlove Posted August 6, 2010 Posted August 6, 2010 of course he's interested; moreover, you love the attention. I can tell. What makes you think she likes the attention?
Author simpleone Posted August 7, 2010 Author Posted August 7, 2010 No; some people just take a passive response to their flirtation as a sign of encouragement. And as Carhill stated, some married people just flirt socially, without any further intent. But asking for your contact information is obviously crossing a line. Just make it clear, either by words or behavior, that you're not interested next time he bugs you. Ok, thanks for your advice. Just recently, he asked about my boyfriend just assuming that I have one without even knowing whether I do or I don't.
flowerlove Posted August 9, 2010 Posted August 9, 2010 Just recently, he asked about my boyfriend just assuming that I have one without even knowing whether I do or I don't. Why would he care whether you have a boyfriend or not? That's your business not his.
ConflictedGuy27 Posted August 9, 2010 Posted August 9, 2010 What makes you think she likes the attention? because I know enough about people to know this - ACTIONS (or lack thereof) speak louder, way louder, than words. just look at OP's latest update - dude's asking about a bf... there went another opportunity to shut him down, but she didn't. clearly he wants her. it's not like shutting him down requires a speech - OP could use non verbals. purposely look away when he looks/tries to talk to her, roll her eyes, fold her arms, sigh really loudly. there's a plethora of ways OP could chose to act that tell him to step off. she continues to use none of them, which is encouraging the bloke. which says to me, she likes it. people do what they like and welcome what they like; the opposite is also true - people avoid what they dislike and try to stop the uncomfortable. OP, you like the attn, don't you? be honest.
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