Crazy Magnet Posted July 22, 2010 Posted July 22, 2010 try to work out the issue with your SO before you come to LS to ask for advice? How many of you do not?
USMCHokie Posted July 22, 2010 Posted July 22, 2010 Hmmm, this is a good question... If it was my ex, I'd go to her first...but since then, I haven't been able to confide in a SO as deeply as her, as I'm finding it difficult, if not impossible, to develop an emotional attachment...so LS gets first dibs...
tigressA Posted July 22, 2010 Posted July 22, 2010 I usually will work it out without involving LS, but if it's something I feel is really delicate and I know I could easily mess it up, and/or I suspect that I'm not seeing all sides, then I come to LS before talking to my SO. I just want to make sure that I am equipped to handle the issue effectively, that I can see more than one perspective. There are a lot of posters here who have helped me do just that. I would mention some names but I don't want to potentially embarrass anyone or get in trouble. :love:
Enchanted Girl Posted July 22, 2010 Posted July 22, 2010 So far, I have never made a thread on here, so yea, I usually work things out without involving this place. If I did ever post on here, it would probably be after I already talked to him about it, unless I viewed the situation as having a right way to approach it and a wrong way and wanted opinions on what the right way to bring up the subject was or something.
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