Davr Posted July 21, 2010 Posted July 21, 2010 So, this one of a few girls im kinda interested in right now... well, I just want to look more into if she's into me or not. The story is we just worked together years back and at the time I looked at her as too young for me so never looked at her as dating material at the time I guess is the way to put it. I was also in a relationship so yea. Basically our relationship was pretty small. We saw eachother at work...recieved some smiles from her here and there. Also, we hung with some of the same people at work as well, so it wasn't unusual to go out with a group of us, actually did for her bday etc. Also work parties etc. Nothing ever happened again besdies little flirting. I never knew what to think anyhow and will admitt I'm a complete fool when knowing if a girl is into me or not. Also, the fact that this girl is like a 9.5/10, and could mostly have anyone she wanted, I guess is intimidating to a certain extent as well. Current day I actually havn't seen her for a long time. Over 2 yrs I would say. We used to talk the odd time online and last I heard was her telling me to come see her very soon....... Well, things happened, I was working, didn't get around to it fast..... then well lets just say I ran into a bunch of personnal problems. I'm feeling better as far as that goes, and I guess you could say have a clear mind to date again. So, my questions I guess are 1) Do you think its possible she likes me more than friends? 2)Did I blow it for not seeing her at that time when she wanted me too? I want to message her and see how she is, but its just weird after quite a bit and not ending up seeing her..... 3) do you think I can send a message to her and maybe see from her response if shes still into it? I dunno.... sorry for rambleing, and appreciate any advice... again, im clueless when telling if the ladies are into me.
sagetalk Posted July 21, 2010 Posted July 21, 2010 If she is attracted to you and still single, then you're fine. If she thinks you're just a friend, then it doesn't really matter in regards to dating, you're toast. Only one way to find out. Do I really need to say anything else ?
Author Davr Posted July 21, 2010 Author Posted July 21, 2010 If she is attracted to you and still single, then you're fine. If she thinks you're just a friend, then it doesn't really matter in regards to dating, you're toast. Only one way to find out. Do I really need to say anything else ? yes... is there anyway to find outlike now?? lol.. like if I like ask her out in a message or something and see how she answers?
Author Davr Posted July 21, 2010 Author Posted July 21, 2010 Hey.. I thought you were a chick.. no fair.
sagetalk Posted July 21, 2010 Posted July 21, 2010 Hey.. I thought you were a chick.. no fair. Sorry, I ignore things with !!!!!! before it. Why are you asking only for girls advice in the first place? If you think women know how to get women better than men do, you're doomed.
Sivok Posted July 21, 2010 Posted July 21, 2010 http://4.bp.blogspot.com/_6O-04EZSZdo/TB11XlcynmI/AAAAAAAAAwo/2CsGYvdcnjQ/s1600/friend+zone1.png
that girl Posted July 21, 2010 Posted July 21, 2010 We used to talk the odd time online and last I heard was her telling me to come see her very soon....... Well, things happened, I was working, didn't get around to it fast..... How long ago was this? I think you already posted this question with no time information but how long it has been since you talked/messaged and she suggested you come and visit makes a difference in how you should handle it. If you think women know how to get women better than men do, you're doomed. Eyes rolling out of my head
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