dreamer0123 Posted July 20, 2010 Posted July 20, 2010 Ok.. So i'm finally getting back into dating and need some advice... So I've met this guy online- we've exchanged pictures and spoke on the phone. The first time we met for coffee and it was nice- we chatted a couple of hours and we ended it off with a hug- that was it- no I'll talk to you soon or I'll see you again or anything. This was the first weekend in July. So since then especially over the last couple of weeks- we've spoken almost everyday for at least an hour or so- and it's been nice (at least I think so).. so he was came into down on Saturday for other reasons but he wanted to "hang out" again so we met up again for a quick coffee.. it was short.. only 45 minutes but that's ok since I knew he was busy (I was slightly bummed).. However- once again- it ended with a hug and no "I'll call you or I'll see you or talk to you later"... So I called him last night and he didn't answer but texted me a few hours ago to say he'll try calling me tomorrow. Here's the problem-I am interested in him but I feel like he isn't interested in me...since he hasn't asked me on an official date.. I mean we live about an hour or so away.. I can't tell if he likes me.. part of me says yes because we talk and part of me says no.... Also- I plan to just ask him but as mentioned i'm really new to this and don't want to seem super pushy or needy...
D-Lish Posted July 20, 2010 Posted July 20, 2010 Here's the problem-I am interested in him but I feel like he isn't interested in me...since he hasn't asked me on an official date.. I mean we live about an hour or so away.. I can't tell if he likes me.. part of me says yes because we talk and part of me says no.... Also- I plan to just ask him but as mentioned i'm really new to this and don't want to seem super pushy or needy... I wouldn't ask, it will make you appear insecure.
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