make me believe Posted July 20, 2010 Posted July 20, 2010 I really do not find farting in front of your SO to be an indicator of how "intimate" your relationship is. I don't need to fart or pee or sh*t in front of my boyfriend in order to feel close to him. Personally, I think that in a romantic relationship some things are best kept private. I wouldn't dump my boyfriend for farting in front of me, but I certainly don't feel closer to him if he accidentally does it. IMO farting in front of each other & using the bathroom in front of each other is more a sign of getting lazy in the relationship than anything else.
yume Posted July 20, 2010 Posted July 20, 2010 The last guy I dated, it was morning, and I was foggy, forgetting he was in my bed- and I farted like I always do as soon as I wake up. Those are the best ones, aren't they?
SpanksTheMonkey Posted July 20, 2010 Posted July 20, 2010 My mother once told me she refused to ever fart in front of her boyfriends/husband. I, on the other hand, do occasionally toot in front of my boyfriend of 8 months. He laughs it off and says he doesn't mind. It may be a dumb subject, but I was just curious Do you ladies not hold back in that area in front of your guy? Do you guys find it un-lady like even after dating for a period of time? I had to Google dutch oven then wondered wtf was up when all that came up was a bunch of old looking cooking pots lol Moving on me and my bf are quite casual about farts I do feel a little bad tho after chili night some times but then again he can let them go just as good. We also burp when needed as well I figure if im going to hopefully spend the rest of my life with this guy a few little body quirks should be the least of our worries. I wont do it in public if it can be avoided reminds me of the greyhound buss I was on once I just couldn't stop for the life of me farted for like a hour straight it was so embarrassing and yet kinda funny cause no one figured out who it was..
LucreziaBorgia Posted July 20, 2010 Posted July 20, 2010 Ex H and I used to do that in front of each other all the time. We were just entirely too comfortable with each other and basically just devolved to roommates. With the guy I'm with now, I refuse to let things get that comfortable - he is my lover, not my roommate, and we maintain things in that way. We don't do that in front of each other. We don't go to the bathroom in front of each other. To each his own, but sometimes there is a fine line where if you cross it, intimacy becomes familiarity and you know what familiarity breeds...
make me believe Posted July 20, 2010 Posted July 20, 2010 Ex H and I used to do that in front of each other all the time. We were just entirely too comfortable with each other and basically just devolved to roommates. With the guy I'm with now, I refuse to let things get that comfortable - he is my lover, not my roommate, and we maintain things in that way. We don't do that in front of each other. We don't go to the bathroom in front of each other. To each his own, but sometimes there is a fine line where if you cross it, intimacy becomes familiarity and you know what familiarity breeds... I agree with this 100%!!! I especially like the line about how your guy is your lover not your roommate and you want to keep it that way. I think that is so important in a romantic relationship and it's often overlooked. I never want to get to the point where I'm so lazy or "comfortable" in my relationship that I'm freely farting in front of my SO, changing into my grubbiest sweats the minute I walk in the door, etc. There's a lot to be said for keeping a romantic relationship romantic & special.
homersheineken Posted July 20, 2010 Posted July 20, 2010 My exH would call for me to come into the john so we could chat. He would be completely comfortable sitting there with his newspaper, trying to coordinate what we needed from Home Depot. It became so commonplace for us. Quality time! Nothing says romance like dropping a deuce with your sexy lady coaching you on
2sure Posted July 20, 2010 Posted July 20, 2010 Out of the question. Entirely. I do not fluff or belch in front of anyone. Maybe my sister if she were trapped in conversation, if I could do it silently then escape leaving her with whatever...I'd do that of course. But I would never ever ever in front of anyone else. OMG - if a man fluffed in front of me - intentionally - I would never look at him again. Ever. I would never again find the pig attractive. To see a man sitting on the toilet, in my eyes, would emasculate him. Its a whole bathroom thing. It should be like the fortress of solitude. I dont even want to talk to him thru the door.
hopesndreams Posted July 20, 2010 Posted July 20, 2010 I hold it in. Always have. Always will. Accidental ones are forgivable. Deliberate ones, are not. I can't even say the word, ****!
SpanksTheMonkey Posted July 22, 2010 Posted July 22, 2010 We also shower together and will use the loo at the same time well not same time but you get my point. I don't see the point in being all uptight around your partner. Once you two have established that there is a loving/lasting relationship there if anything what brings two people closer then bowl movements lol.. if you can get thu that together everything else is cake...
SteveC80 Posted July 22, 2010 Posted July 22, 2010 If a woman does that in front of me shes out the door..Its disgusting and unlady like to do it purposely in front of your man.Show some class.
SpanksTheMonkey Posted July 22, 2010 Posted July 22, 2010 If a woman does that in front of me shes out the door..Its disgusting and unlady like to do it purposely in front of your man.Show some class. What if the guy dose it too?
Pink Cupcakes Posted July 22, 2010 Posted July 22, 2010 Steve, what if it's an accident? Like it slips out at night if she forgets to take her Gas-X before bedtime? I have a curious question, Steve....do you have sex with your SO during her time of the month, like use a towel at the end of it or something, or are you the type who is so uptight you wait until a week afterward to make sure she's absolutely clean to have sex with her?
SteveC80 Posted July 22, 2010 Posted July 22, 2010 What if the guy dose it too? Thats up to her i think its more a guy thing but i dont do it purposely in front of a women im with either It kills the romanticism when people get that comfortable
SpanksTheMonkey Posted July 22, 2010 Posted July 22, 2010 Thats up to her i think its more a guy thing but i dont do it purposely in front of a women im with either It kills the romanticism when people get that comfortable See to me if something little like that is going to kill anything in a relationship when there are so many other more serious things to deal with in life. Then maybe its not stable enough of a relationship to begin with for my liking that is thats just mho.. Im not talking about farting like a child on purpose or nothing more like if you let a few slip here and there thats just part of life no. I think It would be a curious question to ask old couples who have been together for years if it was ever a issue..
yume Posted July 22, 2010 Posted July 22, 2010 I really do not find farting in front of your SO to be an indicator of how "intimate" your relationship is. I don't need to fart or pee or sh*t in front of my boyfriend in order to feel close to him. Personally, I think that in a romantic relationship some things are best kept private. I wouldn't dump my boyfriend for farting in front of me, but I certainly don't feel closer to him if he accidentally does it. IMO farting in front of each other & using the bathroom in front of each other is more a sign of getting lazy in the relationship than anything else. Exactly. I don't particularly care about my guy farting in front of me...all my family can talk about on my dad's side is bathroom humour, so I'm used to it... but I certainly do my best not to do it in front of him. I will also NEVER understand the ability that people have in being able to go to the bathroom in front of other people. Peeing, maybe (doubtful), but never number 2. My sister used to come into the bathroom while I was in the bath, not 2 feet away from the toilet, behind a semi-clear shower curtain, to sit down and do her business. It's disgusting, and I don't care who you are, or how you were raised, or what culture you come from...there are some things that should remain private. When it comes to health, sure you should be comfortable talking to your partner about your body & any problems that you may be having...whether it's an upset stomach or "honey, I need some ex-lax.."...but never, ever, unless extremely desperate, sink to doing it in front of each other. Yergh.
SpanksTheMonkey Posted July 22, 2010 Posted July 22, 2010 Steve, what if it's an accident? Like it slips out at night if she forgets to take her Gas-X before bedtime? I have a curious question, Steve....do you have sex with your SO during her time of the month, like use a towel at the end of it or something, or are you the type who is so uptight you wait until a week afterward to make sure she's absolutely clean to have sex with her? Ive never actually had sex while on my period I usualy feel like I have the flu and cant be bothered with anything much less sex. I will say the idea is some how not appealing to me maybe also because I have extremely heavy flow. Sadly enough its also when I usually feel the horniest lol... OK prob TMI moving right along...
scatterd Posted July 22, 2010 Posted July 22, 2010 (edited) I am embarrassed when I accidentally fart and I don't like my husband in the bathroom when Im doing my business we have been together 17 yrs and He laughs if I fart because I turn red.Thats one thing I do not share. Edited July 22, 2010 by scatterd
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