lostandconfused113 Posted December 4, 2009 Posted December 4, 2009 there is a girl in one of my classes that i really like. during class we usually look at each other for extended periods of time without saying anything and we makefun of each other in a playful way. i have also caught her starring at me out of the corner of my eye and i am the only person in the entire class she will come to if she needs help or even talk to
boogieboy Posted December 4, 2009 Posted December 4, 2009 If you havent talked to her yet, then it doesnt mean she likes you, but she might be curious about you. GO talk to her and be funny, and dont screw it up.
Nichole Posted December 4, 2009 Posted December 4, 2009 (edited) during class we usually look at each other for extended periods of time without saying anything Tell me more about this. For example: -Do either of you blink? -Define "extended periods." -You note that both of you remain silent during these extended periods of fierce eye contact - I assume you are within comfortable speaking/hearing range, then. How close are you, exactly? And are you face-to-face? Really, I need more info before I can formulate a personalized response. With what little info I have, though, I suggest you start mouthing random words (remain silent!) whilst maintaining eye contact, just to stir things up a bit. Relationships need excitement to really go the distance, you see. Fun words with relatively indistinguishable lip movements to leave her guessing (and maybe make her own forum post!): -Parcheesi -Macromolecule -Smuckers (like the jam) Edit: Is this a mime class? Edited December 4, 2009 by Nichole
Author lostandconfused113 Posted December 6, 2009 Author Posted December 6, 2009 Tell me more about this. For example: -Do either of you blink? -Define "extended periods." -You note that both of you remain silent during these extended periods of fierce eye contact - I assume you are within comfortable speaking/hearing range, then. How close are you, exactly? And are you face-to-face? Really, I need more info before I can formulate a personalized response. With what little info I have, though, I suggest you start mouthing random words (remain silent!) whilst maintaining eye contact, just to stir things up a bit. Relationships need excitement to really go the distance, you see. Fun words with relatively indistinguishable lip movements to leave her guessing (and maybe make her own forum post!): -Parcheesi -Macromolecule -Smuckers (like the jam) Edit: Is this a mime class? its english class and no we dont blink and extended period is like 30 sec so its not like a quick glance she sits next to me and she always talks to me and asks if i want to go to her soccer games but i cannot tell if shes just being friendly or wants more i make her laught alot in class and she loves to make fun of me so what does this mean
dreamergrl Posted December 6, 2009 Posted December 6, 2009 So you have counted the seconds you go without blinking?
boogieboy Posted December 6, 2009 Posted December 6, 2009 its english class and no we dont blink and extended period is like 30 sec so its not like a quick glance she sits next to me and she always talks to me and asks if i want to go to her soccer games but i cannot tell if shes just being friendly or wants more i make her laught alot in class and she loves to make fun of me so what does this mean Cant tell, dont go to her soccer games, ask her out for coffee so you two can keep talking. See where it goes from there. Make sure when you go, you escalate the touching. Light stuff. Dont overdo it, dont do it too often. Shes gotta know youre interested. Also when you do that you can tell if shes interested or just looking for a friend.
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