Some-Guy Posted December 3, 2009 Posted December 3, 2009 Hey I like a girl from work, we've talked from time to time, nothing special. Everyone knows that I like her, its a fact that she also knows. I was invited by some friends from work to the movies so I accepted, to my surprise she was also there, apparently they are trying to set us up (which I have no objection at all). The time to say the least was Awkward, none of us engaged in a conversation. I was thinking of going to her the next time I saw her, and since she most likely knows and you know just come out honestly and say "Look, I really like you, and I would love to get to know you better, would you like to go out and see how it goes?" something along those lines. She is also almost always in the company of other girls, should I take her to the side and talk to her alone? I think it would be best, but hey I'm OPEN to any advice.
Yukikazi Posted December 3, 2009 Posted December 3, 2009 If her friends already know and they are the ones hanging around.. then go ahead and ask in front of them.. I can pretty much guarantee she wont say no in front of her friends. Walk up and tell them you are going to get coffee and ask her if they would like to join you.. if you get the whole group.. great.. they will let you concentrate on her if they are in the know. When you ask them all to join you.. be sure to have eye contact with your girl when you say it. So you are asking the group out loud but asking her specifically with your eyes. be sure to smile
jerseyboy Posted December 3, 2009 Posted December 3, 2009 Talk to her alone. Not in front of your mutual friends. Puts people on the spot. I hate that. Like I have to say yes or embarrass you/me in front of everyone. Saying that is fine, although you guys work together. You are asking her out, the rest is kind of superfluous. Just lets grab dinner/coffee/whatever. Less pressure work wise, and if shes not interested, you didnt just pour your heart out at the office making it all way uncomfortable.
627 Posted December 3, 2009 Posted December 3, 2009 have you ever been out on a date? ask her out for coffee or donut or something, you need to get to know her first, and take things step by step... I don't know, I've always been against the daredevil move or declaring your likeness to someone without being out together enough
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