PDPullmn612 Posted December 3, 2009 Posted December 3, 2009 Hey guys, I've always found it hard to meet new women. I just don't really have the confidence to go up to a girl and strike up a conversation. When I go out with my friends I see a lot of girls that I would lov to talk to, but I just can't get myself to do it. So, what are the best/easiest way to approach women? I just don't know what to do or what to say. I'm always afraid I'll get shut down and what not. Any help is appreciated. Thanks in advance. -Dave
Awesome Username Posted December 3, 2009 Posted December 3, 2009 Hey guys, I've always found it hard to meet new women. I just don't really have the confidence to go up to a girl and strike up a conversation. When I go out with my friends I see a lot of girls that I would lov to talk to, but I just can't get myself to do it. So, what are the best/easiest way to approach women? I just don't know what to do or what to say. I'm always afraid I'll get shut down and what not. Any help is appreciated. Thanks in advance. -Dave Learning tarot cards is a good ice-breaker, as well as buying a lady a drink and simply introducing yourself and your friend to a group of girls. Going up and saying "Hello" and standing there silently is a little creepy - find something to talk about to show her that you're already thinking about things around you.
jerseyboy Posted December 3, 2009 Posted December 3, 2009 Bro It doesn't matter what you say, so long as its obvious. However counter intuitive it may sound. Dont ask her for the time. Or how to get somewhere. In other words, don't pretend to be talking to her for any reason other than you find her attractive. Assuming its a girl you don't know, aren't meeting with friends etc. If you really cant think of anything else, just introduce yourself. Nothing bad is going to happen. Women don't freak out at having guys hit on them. Even if she isn't interested, I promise you shell be telling her bf or gf's about the guy who hit on her. I'll make her day. Does help to be funny though:)
Author PDPullmn612 Posted December 3, 2009 Author Posted December 3, 2009 Thank you. I guess I just always thought it would be a little creepy to just walk up and introduce myself. And, I also fear that I'll look like an idiot. But I guess the worst that can happen is that nothing happens and then I'm right back where I started So basically what you are saying is that I should make it obvious that I'm talking to her to get to know her or that I'm talking to her because I think she is attractive? Most of these girls I go to college with so there would definitely be plenty to talk about. Anyway, any more advice? (Maybe a female perspective).
woopster638 Posted December 3, 2009 Posted December 3, 2009 go up to a girl and start a convo about pokemon!............if she's interested she will respond positively,besides who don't like pokemon lol
jerseyboy Posted December 3, 2009 Posted December 3, 2009 College? Then it really doesn't matter what the hell you say lol. Hey is enough lol And don't worry about the nonsense like will they tell everyone I hit on them. They definitely will, girls talk bro. In f'ing specific detail. They will tell them everything down to the last millimeter of your penis. Learn to deal:eek: So don't look like a frightened girl when you ask them out. Some will find it awww cute, but its still aww cute and you're a pussy, even if in an endearing way. And dont worry about getting a rep as a guy who asks out a lot of girls, or even sleeps with a lot of girls, or breaking hearts. Especially at that age. They all think they will be the different one anyway. And other women sweating you just makes you that much mroe appealing
Author PDPullmn612 Posted December 3, 2009 Author Posted December 3, 2009 go up to a girl and start a convo about pokemon!............if she's interested she will respond positively,besides who don't like pokemon lol If only it were that easy And I just realized my avatar was from about 4 years ago. Probably time to update it lol
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