dreamergrl Posted December 3, 2009 Posted December 3, 2009 For those of you who remember that ordeal I went through.. The guy from my issue in September got in contact with me. Nothing big. But it makes me feel bad all over again. Why do I carry the guilt? It was just a "What's up" kind of email. Like.. just saying hi. But still.. I remember every day, I have a daily visual reminder, that isn't going away any time soon. Sometimes, I just feel like a bad person.
Pizzaman81 Posted December 3, 2009 Posted December 3, 2009 For those of you who remember that ordeal I went through.. The guy from my issue in September got in contact with me. Nothing big. But it makes me feel bad all over again. Why do I carry the guilt? It was just a "What's up" kind of email. Like.. just saying hi. But still.. I remember every day, I have a daily visual reminder, that isn't going away any time soon. Sometimes, I just feel like a bad person. Recap? In 3 sentences or less please.
Star Gazer Posted December 3, 2009 Posted December 3, 2009 Recap? In 3 sentences or less please. Not sure that's possible. So that no one mischaracterizes it, here it is: http://www.loveshack.org/forums/t203154/
pandagirl Posted December 3, 2009 Posted December 3, 2009 Aww, hugs, DG. Listen, I really think you've dealt with the situation wonderfully and courageously. Feelings and memories just don't disappear, but you should look into yourself and work on why you feel so guilty and like a "bad person," because I'm sure intellectually, you know you are not. As for the guy writing you, I'm sure it was a sincere effort in reconnecting with you. He probably knows he didn't handle the situation well, and is reaching out to you for some reason or another. Are you still going to therapy?
Author dreamergrl Posted December 3, 2009 Author Posted December 3, 2009 Yeah I'm still going. I feel a lot better today... just a bout of those feelings. I feel pretty good in general. Just every now and then...
tkgirl Posted December 3, 2009 Posted December 3, 2009 Yeah I'm still going. I feel a lot better today... just a bout of those feelings. I feel pretty good in general. Just every now and then... hey DG! been thinking about you and wondering how things are going... about sept guy.. I think it's good that he got in touch with you.. at least to bring some "closure" to that whole ordeal. I'm sure it must have brought up some unresolved feelings (not really for him) and that can be scary... but then you can face them head on and process through them etc. and soon you'll be feeling stronger. I think we go through certain things sometimes so we can learn from them and grow and all that... and it's all about figuring out who YOU are and what you want... I mean, IMHO! let's talk soon, k? hang in there cutie...
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