confusedmuch Posted December 2, 2009 Posted December 2, 2009 A few weeks ago I went out with this guy. It was a lot of fun but he was a bit too much for me to handle. I let him know and he insists we can be friends and so we go out again, as friends. Unfortunately he couldn't keep his hands off me so the next time he wanted to hang out, I politely declined and sent him an email telling him as nicely as possible why I didn't want to hang out with him. He responded calling me a drama queen, etc, etc and not to worry, he would never contact me again. So now a few weeks later I get a text from him apologizing for being so harsh. Then he asks if we can be friends since he has so much fun when he's with me. I'm very forgiving, but I'm trying not to be naiive. What would make him suddenly apologize after several weeks and is it possible he actually wants to be just friends? (Without benefits lol)
New Again Posted December 2, 2009 Posted December 2, 2009 That's easy. He's apologizing now because he wants to try to get in your pants again.
Art_Critic Posted December 2, 2009 Posted December 2, 2009 That's easy. He's apologizing now because he wants to try to get in your pants again. Yeah... what she said
Pizzaman81 Posted December 2, 2009 Posted December 2, 2009 Hahah? he insist on being friends with you only? Run away far far far!!! Trust me on this one.
Art_Critic Posted December 2, 2009 Posted December 2, 2009 (Without benefits lol) That's only what you think.. he will think he has a shot.. why ?.. simply.. guys always are trying to get in a woman's pants.. no matter what we tell you We are here on this planet to reproduce and to try to reproduce
Author confusedmuch Posted December 2, 2009 Author Posted December 2, 2009 (edited) Wow, I guess that would make sense. In his last text he mentioned how he had a lot of fun on our first date (we made out a lot) and wanted to know if it could be like that but as friends. I guess I really am naiive, lol. Now I see he was asking about friends with benefits... Edited December 2, 2009 by confusedmuch
Author confusedmuch Posted December 2, 2009 Author Posted December 2, 2009 Try not making out a lot on the first date Lesson learned, lol
DustySaltus Posted December 2, 2009 Posted December 2, 2009 Wasn't it Biff from back to the future who once said: "Hellllloooo McFly......hello"!!! He's going in for the kill.
Angel1111 Posted December 2, 2009 Posted December 2, 2009 He's one of those guys who will keep after you until you cave in. I hope you didn't respond to his message. If you didn't, then don't. No response is necessary - just ignore him.
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