lucy9216 Posted December 2, 2009 Posted December 2, 2009 Well, there is this guy I have posted about on here before that I met on match about 5 months ago. I have only met him once in 5 months and get random texts from him throughout the months and he always says that he wants to hang out again soon, but never makes plans too. So, we were texting on friday night and I told him that I thought he was alot of fun and that we are friends. He responded with "you don't like me" I said "well... you don't like me?" he responded with saying that he does like me and throughout the texting he kept saying that he needs a good supportive girl, and wants someone to cuddle with and the way he was saying it was hinting towards me. I just told him that I hope he finds someone soon too... I didn't want to play too much into this because he is so flaky, I do like talking with him though and would like to be friends with him. Well, we have plans to hang out on saturday with both of our kids. I had to initiate it but I just said something like " hey I have my daughter this weekend we are going to -----, if you are up to it would you like to join us" he said yeah he is up for it and he will have his kid too. What should I think of all of this? I am thinking he is just a friend?
phineas Posted December 2, 2009 Posted December 2, 2009 I'm thinking you need to actually spend time with someone in person in order to figure out if you like each other. maybe your both interested in each other but don't think the other is interested so your dancing around the issue & assuming the other will make a move if their interested. But, I have been wrong before.
Author lucy9216 Posted December 2, 2009 Author Posted December 2, 2009 Thank you phineas, this could be true... when we were first talking he texted me kinda often but I guess not alot, then he went distant after we met and I would get texts every couple of weeks but I also stopped initiating contact myself. We went 2 months without talking at all, I recently contacted him on the dating website and he responded right away... I waited for him to contact me via phone and it took him almost 2 weeks, then I waited 2 weeks after that and....... hmmmmm..... maybe you are right! lol, I thought he should be putting more effort in so I would just wait for him to contact me and sometimes I would wait a week to contact him because he has done that before..... guess I will have to wait and see how things go on saturday huh?
phineas Posted December 2, 2009 Posted December 2, 2009 That's quite a dance you guys got going on there. See if he blows you off.
Author lucy9216 Posted December 3, 2009 Author Posted December 3, 2009 Well... I do hope he doesent blow me off. I mean he has to have some interest in order to keep talking to me the last 5 months? but that's the thing only some interest. And yes it is quite a dance and a very frustrating one at that... I think after saturday I may ask him what is interest level is and if we are just going to be friends.
Author lucy9216 Posted December 7, 2009 Author Posted December 7, 2009 Guess what the guy flaked! lol, not surprised at all... he told me that his brother was unexpectadly on his way to his house and he lives a few hours away so he couldn't go out cause his brother is on his way... Normally this guy just texts me, but I actually got a phone call with him cancelling on me and he said that he would get a sitter for next weekend so we can hang out and he will call me later. I am not going to make any more initiative with this guy, I am tired of trying and he doesent. We'll see if he actually calls my bet is no that I wont hear from him for another 2 or 3 weeks....
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