MeganDoll Posted December 1, 2009 Posted December 1, 2009 I know i have a reputation as shallow here and this wont help but i honestly feel bad and dotn know what to do here I went on a date with this guy whos adorable but hes only 5'8,it didnt bother me at first because hes not that short compared to me but when we got out to a spcial setting guys tower over him and it makes me feel uncomfrotable and unprotected,hes also slim so i feel any of these guys wi;l hit on me without regard becasue they wont be scared off by him and laugh him off I feel in a fight theyd be able to overpower him and grab me amd do what they please,should i get rid of this guy if im unsafe with him?
Ms. Joolie Posted December 1, 2009 Posted December 1, 2009 So his job is to protect you from guys who aren't hitting on you?? Is that it? Sure, he's fired! Date a bouncer.
AD1980 Posted December 1, 2009 Posted December 1, 2009 Women are paranoid,Jesus Christ..Even if your boyfriend tried to protect you and got beat up then what is the guy who beat him up gonna do? take you on his shouders and run off like King Kong? Plus rape usually ocurr when the womens by herself..And if they dont it means theyres multiple men and/or its a guy with a weapon so i doubt your boyriend beign tall and big would stop them.. Women needing protection is hillarious..
Yamaha Posted December 1, 2009 Posted December 1, 2009 Your problem is not that you won't feel safe or unprotected but that people will say, " why is she out with such a little man?" Your peroblem is you worry about what other people think (and they probably don't think anything at all). Get over your insecurity.
Citizen Erased Posted December 1, 2009 Posted December 1, 2009 I know i have a reputation as shallow here and this wont help but i honestly feel bad and dotn know what to do here I went on a date with this guy whos adorable but hes only 5'8,it didnt bother me at first because hes not that short compared to me but when we got out to a spcial setting guys tower over him and it makes me feel uncomfrotable and unprotected,hes also slim so i feel any of these guys wi;l hit on me without regard becasue they wont be scared off by him and laugh him off I feel in a fight theyd be able to overpower him and grab me amd do what they please,should i get rid of this guy if im unsafe with him? Why are you in situations that you would need someone to protect you in that manner? Sounds a bit too drama queen-like to my taste. Someone hitting on you shouldn't result in a fight, unless you condone violence?
Author MeganDoll Posted December 1, 2009 Author Posted December 1, 2009 Why are you in situations that you would need someone to protect you in that manner? Sounds a bit too drama queen-like to my taste. Someone hitting on you shouldn't result in a fight, unless you condone violence? I dont put myself in situations but if youre a women and go out in public your gonna get harrased and i want to feel that my boyfriend could handle it if a guy tried to attack me,i feel they have no respect for him and would hit on me even with him there becasue he commands no respect physically as a man
Avarage Posted December 1, 2009 Posted December 1, 2009 I'm suprised that you still post here. Given the evidence of your past posts it's obvious that your a troll. Why post something like this when you've seen all the height threads that cropped up. I think its safe to say that if your not a troll then your severely lacking in the noggin. Most people would have the common sense to avoid a topic like this since they already know that they would be chewed out by the guys who are mentally afflicted by this. I wonder what you'll post next, maybe about the problems of dating a guy with small hands perhaps?
Untouchable_Fire Posted December 1, 2009 Posted December 1, 2009 I dont put myself in situations but if youre a women and go out in public your gonna get harrased and i want to feel that my boyfriend could handle it if a guy tried to attack me,i feel they have no respect for him and would hit on me even with him there becasue he commands no respect physically as a man I'm sorry, but my best friend is 5'6" and I've seen him beat the snot out of a guy who was over 6'5". Height does not equate to fighting ability. If you can't respect a guy because you perceive he lacks height... that is your problem.
AD1980 Posted December 1, 2009 Posted December 1, 2009 If you can't respect a guy because you perceive he lacks height... that is your problem. I agree though this girls an extreme case[hopefully] i dont think shes alone in feeling that way..Ive heard women i know say why is that guy so arrogant hes short he has no reason to be as if being tall gives you a right.. Short men do seem to evoke weird emotion/anger from some women for some reason..Like we arent real men
jerseyboy Posted December 1, 2009 Posted December 1, 2009 Dont ever start threads about a guys height/penis size, say you like bigger, and not expect to get flamed. People become incensed over these topics. Height is like any other physical attribute. If he doesnt do it for you, no need to apologize or change unless you feel its worth the effort. They wont date a girl because shes ugly or overweight, but you are shallow because height is tied into your attraction triggers. Its just silly. You like what you like And many of the girls Ive known in life have felt the same. Its not like its just you.
Midnight Rider Posted December 1, 2009 Posted December 1, 2009 Women are paranoid,Jesus Christ..Even if your boyfriend tried to protect you and got beat up then what is the guy who beat him up gonna do? take you on his shouders and run off like King Kong? LOL!!! Give her a break, maybe she just finished watching planet of the apes and feels she needs a Charleton Heston sort of guy.
AD1980 Posted December 1, 2009 Posted December 1, 2009 Dont ever start threads about a guys height/penis size, say you like bigger, and not expect to get flamed. People become incensed over these topics. Height is like any other physical attribute. If he doesnt do it for you, no need to apologize or change unless you feel its worth the effort. They wont date a girl because shes ugly or overweight, but you are shallow because height is tied into your attraction triggers. Its just silly. You like what you like And many of the girls Ive known in life have felt the same. Its not like its just you. Shes probably attracted to taller men which is fine but she said nothing about attraction she complained as if some big guy is gonna beat her man up and then drag her away If shes only attracted to tall guys all power to her but this thread had nothing to do with that..She seems mongoloidish thinking that theyres all these men out there plotting to get her..
Author MeganDoll Posted December 2, 2009 Author Posted December 2, 2009 Dont ever start threads about a guys height/penis size, say you like bigger, and not expect to get flamed. People become incensed over these topics. Height is like any other physical attribute. If he doesnt do it for you, no need to apologize or change unless you feel its worth the effort. They wont date a girl because shes ugly or overweight, but you are shallow because height is tied into your attraction triggers. Its just silly. You like what you like And many of the girls Ive known in life have felt the same. Its not like its just you. Thank you:) I still felt bad and its not about attraction but youre right short guys can be mean and have no right to be shallow when theyre not that desired, i guess allot of women told u that they arent attracted and dont feel safe around short guys? At least im not alone and most feel that way
sally4sara Posted December 2, 2009 Posted December 2, 2009 Where do you live that you need to worry about the guy you're out with fighting off the advances of other men? Do you get assaulted every time you leave your home without a large male escort? How many times has this happened in the last week? Month? Year? I think you're being a bit over blown.
AD1980 Posted December 2, 2009 Posted December 2, 2009 They wont date a girl because shes ugly or overweight, but you are shallow because height is tied into your attraction triggers. Its just silly. You like what you like And many of the girls Ive known in life have felt the same. Its not like its just you. You proably dotn mean it to but you come acorss a little condescending to short dudes in here.. You said in previosu posts you well over 6 foot so u have no problems in this area of rejection so it sounds like youre coming in here reveling in posts like these and telling her its ok almost all girls prefer bigger guys like me dont worry Maybe its not your atteniton but its how it comes off..
D-Lish Posted December 2, 2009 Posted December 2, 2009 My last bf was 5'8 and I am 5'7, so any shoe with a heel made me taller than him. He was confident and unaffected by my height. I don't think I ever considered whether or not he could beat up a bigger guy- when guys came on to me while we were out, I just told them I was with someone. I really liked him, his height was never an issue for me.
JustLooking123 Posted December 2, 2009 Posted December 2, 2009 Serious question: How many times have your past boyfriends needed to beat people up in order to defend you? How frequently is there a threat of imminent violence? Honestly, I think you're looking for reasons to dump the guy. Do him a favor and set him free.
jerseyboy Posted December 2, 2009 Posted December 2, 2009 You proably dotn mean it to but you come acorss a little condescending to short dudes in here.. You said in previous posts you well over 6 foot so u have no problems in this area of rejection so it sounds like you're coming in here reveling in posts like these and telling her its ok almost all girls prefer bigger guys like me dont worry Maybe its not your attention but its how it comes off.. Its not my intention bro. And it isnt like Ive gone through life without ever having a girl like me for whatever reason. I just dont feel like every girl in the world is obliagted to do so. There are other guys on the planet. Im not oblivious to how it can be tough to be a shorter man. It just ticks me off when people start criticizing others for their attraction quirks, all the while oblivious to their own. As in my hang ups are ok, but you suck. Its vapid and completely lacking in self awareness.
dreamergrl Posted December 2, 2009 Posted December 2, 2009 OP, aren't you the poster who magically appeared and first started posting with "I love tall guys" type comments right off the bat when the height threads started popping up?
Illiandra Posted December 2, 2009 Posted December 2, 2009 if you like him then the height shouldnt be a real issue.... however, if your attracted to taller guys, just let the guy loose so you dont end up breaking his heart 1 - 2 years later down the road when you realize you want him to be taller...
Citizen Erased Posted December 2, 2009 Posted December 2, 2009 OP, aren't you the poster who magically appeared and first started posting with "I love tall guys" type comments right off the bat when the height threads started popping up? Yep, that's the one.
threebyfate Posted December 2, 2009 Posted December 2, 2009 If you bring a whip, chair and carry a gun in your holster, you'll be safe from all those marauding men. Men are similar to big cats, where you have to teach them who's boss, otherwise the minute you turn your back, they'll jump you, sometimes dry humping, other times full on rape.
dreamergrl Posted December 2, 2009 Posted December 2, 2009 Yep, that's the one. I thought it was getting awfully quiet on the height issue. If you bring a whip, chair and carry a gun in your holster, you'll be safe from all those marauding men. Men are similar to big cats, where you have to teach them who's boss, otherwise the minute you turn your back, they'll jump you, sometimes dry humping, other times full on rape. Vultures?
threebyfate Posted December 2, 2009 Posted December 2, 2009 Vultures?Do vultures dry-hump? I did not know that.
dreamergrl Posted December 2, 2009 Posted December 2, 2009 Do vultures dry-hump? I did not know that. Well no.. but they swarm their prey.
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