Broseph Posted December 1, 2009 Posted December 1, 2009 Been seeing a girl now for about a month and we have seen eachother about 5 times which have all really come on the weekend. We live an hour apart so seeing eachother more often at this point would be difficult. Everytime has seemed to go well and the plans we have made we have stuck too. It seems she is hinting about me going out with her for new years and he birthday which is a month away but yeah we havent made any definite plans nor has she asked me straight out. I guess the issue I have is that in between visits I seem to be the one doing most the persuing and making the intitial contact. I call she answers, I text she replies or Ill message on facebook and she will reply. For example, I sent her a message on facebook coonfirming last weekends plans and she replied the next day (nicely mind you) and said she would call the following day which she did. During the week she hasnt called out of the blue in our time together which seems odd to me. Sometimes maybe once or twice a week I will call, If she doesnt answer the call right away she replies usually right away. She does seem interested I hope. I mean she does make weekend plans with me and sticks to them, she is responsive when I call and so fourth but she hasnt initiated that much contact on her own. I am not use to this type of girl. I mean a month in if you didnt want to see someone, especially the fact we dont have many mutual friends (as in we wouldnt run into eachother if we stopped talking) just tell me she is not interested in persuing this? Has anyone dated shy girls before and is this what they are like? Unsure how to read her really because things seem good but its slow and where can a slow starting relationship lead? She has texted me the night I leave to ensure that I have gotten home ok and she has thanked me for everytime I have turned up. Am i looking into this too much and rather than think just go with the flow?
Bejita463 Posted December 1, 2009 Posted December 1, 2009 Has anyone dated shy girls before and is this what they are like? Yup, and yup.
CLC2008 Posted December 1, 2009 Posted December 1, 2009 Yes, I think you are looking into it too much. One month, seen each other 5 times and everything else you've written, all seems to be very good signs. That's not slow for only one month in... My younger sister is seeing someone she met two weeks ago, and they have seen each other almost every single day/night, he comes over after work, sleeps over, etc. Excessive - "add water instant relationship". Those first few months at the start of a new relationship, you can never really get back, so ENJOY them.
sedgwick Posted December 1, 2009 Posted December 1, 2009 What is a ratification? Doesn't that have something to do with contract law?
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