soconfusing Posted November 30, 2009 Posted November 30, 2009 I went out with this guy a couple times and both dates went really well. On the first date, he completely swept me off my feet and I was basically in love already. Or at least infatuated. The second date went really well too. But then suddenly he stopped texting and calling (unless I texted or called him). So I got smart and just stopped contacting him altogether. My friends say he was a "bad boy". It's been over a week since I've heard from him and I still find myself thinking about him, missing him, wondering what could have been. But after only 2 dates! With almost any other guy I forget about them after a few days if I don't hear from them. Is this what is love at first sight? Or is there something wrong with me? lol
CarrieT Posted November 30, 2009 Posted November 30, 2009 I had exactly the same thing happen to me last July. I was already planning our life together after the second date because of how well we clicked, but the guy never called again. And I am still thinking about him... So, it is NOT you. Not after two dates. You don't know him that well and it was just an infatuation (of course, this is me talking to myself as well). It takes a lot more time together to really click with someone and those first sparks were just that. Time to move on and find a guy that will really appreciate you.
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