now_what Posted November 30, 2009 Posted November 30, 2009 I posted for the first time in the dating forum last week about not having dated in thirty years. I went out twice with a guy I met on eharmony and we mutually decided that we were not the right person for each other. Guy #2 from eharmony started emailing me last Sunday and he called me tonight and would like to meet on Tuesday. I think we really hit it off over the phone and he sounds likes everything I have been looking for in a man. He's a big guy, said people think he's somewhat intimidating because of size, but said he's a lover, not a fighter, but has worked as a bouncer and in security. He's been divorced for about 9 years and has three grown kids, but when the kids were growing up he did all the cooking for his family. So he loves to cook, loves to kiss and cuddle, hold hands, likes to send flowers and light candles, romantic picnics, etc. Said he's tired of being alone and wants someone to do things with and share his life with. He said his ex did not appreciate him and cheated on him for three years before they broke up - he waited to divorce until his kids were older. My ex cheated on me and left me for another woman after 30 years of marriage. We talked for about an hour and I am very excited that he wants to meet me. He sounds like he is everything my ex was not. I've had no romance or passion in my life for so long, do I dare think this could be my chance?
rateyes Posted November 30, 2009 Posted November 30, 2009 just go with it. He seems like a nice guy, he wont care much, and will probably help you through it, or better yet, probably go through it with you since hes bout in the same boat as you, being single for a while.
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