joel Posted November 29, 2009 Posted November 29, 2009 hey can i ask? how often do you and bf/gf or when u do date how often . once a week, 2 times a wk, or more. ...---on average. i mean we see each other once every 2 wks-that something i noticed and i have to do the planning too.once every 2 wks . yesterday and today and tommorrow she be going out with her friends and i asked her to hang out with me, but she rather hang with them. i'm not even really priority. and if we do hang out -its always me doing the planning and timing of everything. she never initates or makes plans for us to hang out-be it lets go dinner, movie on tues or wed her friends at victoria called me "oh go back to your bf" and she refers to me as one. yea but then i also have a feeling shes not serious about it. there other stuff i notice about her that she displays and shows gf . like pouring tea, scooping noodles, ...etc and she so secrective about things too-this is with everything. and the only reason i believe she invited me out to whistler is b/c her friends asked her if she had a bf, and she said yes and they said why dont u bring him out. i dont want to get hurt ---not jsut time and money ,but mentally and emotionally too. she doesn't require me to pay when we go out and give money back to me. seems caring too--pros con. s---well i noticed on her cell phone when i was up in victoria with her a text msg on her cell and it showed she has a lover. "hey my love" "i love you"... i also overheard her saying i love you on her cell when she was on the phone. that explains why she is secrective and i only see her so often. she even said we are in a relationship. we only went out 5 x;s . i didn;t get mad or bring it up as i relied on their car to get back to vancouver-hehe. i had a feeling she was like this though. she seemed like it. loose play type of girl. after i said i would like to have a relationship with her she let me have sex with her, but then i dont think shes really serious about relationship with me also on the 4th date she was willing and let me have sex with her, but i didn't since i wasn't prepared with condom and she just lays there like a stone and i do all the work---shes selfish in that way and other ways. kind of a loose loose girl.
Sam Spade Posted November 29, 2009 Posted November 29, 2009 As long as she shows on our dates in plaid skirt, knee-high white socks, and pigtails, I'd take any and all crap from her :love:.
BeautifulMan Posted November 29, 2009 Posted November 29, 2009 Keep her on the side and get with other chicks. No reason to stop receiving the pleasantries of her being your gf (if you do have sex) when she doesn't care.
Vertex Posted November 29, 2009 Posted November 29, 2009 As long as she shows on our dates in plaid skirt, knee-high white socks, and pigtails, I'd take any and all crap from her :love:. Minus the pigtails, perhaps, but hot damn.
Author joel Posted December 5, 2009 Author Posted December 5, 2009 you now im not a good girl. ---what does that term mean when a girl tells that to a guy shes dating. she also said shes into bad guys and players-why would a girl say shes into those tyes and that quote she also said im a good guy though she ended it with me yesterday and i saw it coming. ofc disappointed. i should have ended it with her , as i wont be feeling so rejected n disappointed. hehe i dont date a lot of get gfs so its hard. she also said it wasn;t my faught, and kept saying im so sorry.she deleted me off her facebook when i got home and blocked me off her msn. i guess she doesn't even want to be friends,which i would have been nice -to keep in touch. she told she deleted everything exs contacts. hmmm why would someone commit to a relationship n let you have sex with her on the 4th date but then on the 6th date break up with me. i saw it coming as i always had to initiate outings, dates and it wasn't very frequent when we hung out-ionce every 2 wks or so. its like when you first meet them its all good-and then later you find out what they are really like after 5th date. sometimes you really wish you never even met them in the first place or i won;t even be in this kind of mess and headache and heartache
tami-chan Posted December 5, 2009 Posted December 5, 2009 Joel...I understand you are hurting but she was just not into you...you were this nice guy who was available to her, now she is ready to move on and not keep you on the side. All that "I'm a bad girl, you're a good guy", etc.etc...maybe true but really, they are just excuses to soften the blow of breaking up with you....so..let her go..no use trying to understand why she did what she did or said what she said.
Samari Posted December 6, 2009 Posted December 6, 2009 Keep her on the side and get with other chicks. No reason to stop receiving the pleasantries of her being your gf (if you do have sex) when she doesn't care. LOL good point. I think this is the ultimate move to make. Just keep her as a hoe on the side...at least until he finds a real girlfriend.
tami-chan Posted December 6, 2009 Posted December 6, 2009 LOL good point. I think this is the ultimate move to make. Just keep her as a hoe on the side...at least until he finds a real girlfriend. Too late for that...he WAS the side dish and she dumped him.
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