kitty57 Posted November 28, 2009 Posted November 28, 2009 Could really use some help with this one...I meet this great guy about 9 mths ago we dated for about 2 mths then he broke it off, then after a couple of weeks we started seeing each other again steady(spending 3-4 days a week together) for around 3 mths, then one weekend we were together and he was in a bad mood and kinda on the rude side all day. Well, we were supposed to go to dinner that night with some of his friends and I decided I didn't want to go to dinner(didn't want to go play nice after he'd been such an &** all day). Anyway when he found out I wasn't going to dinner he gave me a kiss good bye and said see you later. I thought he would be back but I didn't hear from him for a month. I tried calling him a couple of times after that day, but he wouldn't take my calls. So I e-mailed him to let him know I had mailed his clothes and stuff to him. I apoligized for not going to dinner and explained how I had felt that night. When he called a month later he called to let me know he had dropped off something of mine at my house. He left a long message apoligizing for things not working out and that it was all his fault. We started talking again pretty regular shortly after that. Then about 6 wks ago we were talking one day and it felt uncomfortable so I asked him if he was seeing someone and he said he was dating someone buy not seeing them.??????? Anyway we didn't talk for a couple of weeks and then he started calling again regularly, now for the last 3 weeks we've been going out a couple times a week. We spent the night together a couple nights ago(had incredible sex, always did). Talked the next day a couple of times and haven't spoken today. Could really use some help figuring this out, I really like this guy and don't want to screw things up this time. Any advise or input would be greatly appreciated. Any questions are welcomed too.
SoulSearch_CO Posted November 28, 2009 Posted November 28, 2009 Kinda sounds to me like he's not that into you. He's using you to fill the time (especially if he knows the sex is good), until he finds a woman he really wants to focus on.
jerseyboy Posted November 28, 2009 Posted November 28, 2009 Same And I hate to say it hon but hes been seeing other girls the time hes with you. Especially at the breaks. The line hes hitting you with now is what hes been doing all along. Even if he hadnt said it, it was clear by his actions. If he wasnt getting the milk somewhere else, he wouldnt have been as absent and nonchalant with you. He clearly likes the sex enough to keep coming back for it. And guys dont totally disappear on a sure thing unless someone else is picking up the slack
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