hals Posted November 27, 2009 Posted November 27, 2009 I have kind of a compound question about my relationship with my boyfriend. we have been dating for just over a year, and we are both in our 20's and in college. I always knew we didn't have a whole lot in common, but lately it has been on my mind a lot more. I try to find things to bring us together but it is kinda hard. He has always liked going out to the bars, and while this isn't a problem for me at all, its just not really something I like to do. He has recently started to complain about how I never like going to the bars with him, and truthfully I wouldn't mind going once in a while, but I dislike the way he acts when he drinks, he isn't physically or mentally abusive or anything he just isn't the same guy I love. I haven't told him the way i feel because I don't want him to think I want him to change, I just don't want to be around him at when he drinks. I don't think its that big of a deal, but he REALLY want me to go out with him and his friends. So, what should I do about not having much in common? we live in the mid-west, and I'm not going to say there is nothing to do that interests us both just there is very little and most of the time it is a little expensive (got to love college! bleeds you dry!). What should I do about him complaining about going out? Thank you!
Cranialrupture Posted November 27, 2009 Posted November 27, 2009 The only thing you can do. HONESTY. You really think not telling him or pretending is going to help you or him.?.? If he doesn't respect your opinions and feelings then he doesn't respect you. Plain and simple. Don't BS him or yourself.
boogieboy Posted November 27, 2009 Posted November 27, 2009 Either break up with him, or go out with your own friends when he goes out with his friends. Unless you like to sit at home alone.
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