illmatic21390 Posted November 27, 2009 Posted November 27, 2009 My name is Michael and I'm 19 years old and going on 20 in February. I have some questions about self appearance. Now I'm getting into my twenties I stepped up and started dressing more appropiate and my age. I dress casual but classy at the same time I guess you could call it regular I don't know. I like wearing v neck clothing like from express, polo, Hugo boss, etc I have an assortment of Armani button up jackets and a whole bunch of diesel jeans and puma casual shoes I wear on a regular basis. I work out alot so all my clothes are fitted to match my body. I like showing people I take care of myself. I also keep my hair well groomed with a little messy on the top. I keep my hair like Ryan seacrest basically. I also love keeping a five o clock shadow scruffy look. Basically I love dressing with what makes me feel comfortable. Now my questions are girls attracted to this kind of look? I'm more interested in women my age or older in their twenties. I like to dress to impress women not make them turn away. I was wondering how do you like men to dress and what attracts you like if you were to see them in a place such as a grocery store or anywhere public? And what kind of looks of expressions do women make that let's you know their interested or think you look handsome when they see you out in public like at a store or whatever? Please help
radwimps Posted November 27, 2009 Posted November 27, 2009 ya you sound like you dress quite fine and your hair style seems fine to(I know who Ryan Seacrest is lol). but biggest thing when a girl first sees you is generally your face. Women are just as shallow as men IF THEY DONT KNOW ANYTHING ABOUT THE GUY. We are all human, we judge on appearance first, and face is one of the biggest factor. seems like you have everything else under control, I don't know what your face looks like, but otherwise, you seem great.
SoulSearch_CO Posted November 27, 2009 Posted November 27, 2009 I think you might want a bisexual man's suggestion instead. That was harsh and completely unhelpful. OP - I'm a 29-y/o woman. What you describe is attractive, however I'd wonder if you were more high-maintenance than me (meaning it'd take you twice as long to get ready to go somewhere as it takes me). I'm not really into high maintenance. Some women don't mind. As for looks women would give that find you attractive - double-takes, maybe a demure smile, maybe lingering their eyes on your clothes/body (although I'd say A LOT of women try to do this discreetly, so men have a hard time catching the VERY subtle social cues).
Author illmatic21390 Posted November 27, 2009 Author Posted November 27, 2009 (edited) Thanks for the suggestion ^. And to the person who said bisexual what do you mean. I don't dress gay or bisexual. I'm not high maintence either . Most of the time it takes me 5 mintues to get ready. If your terms of being non- bisexual mean dressing with baggy clothes and such, I think that looks very low class. I like wearing what makes me feel comfortable and confident. Edited November 27, 2009 by illmatic21390
SoulSearch_CO Posted November 27, 2009 Posted November 27, 2009 What you describe is a bisexual man. Absolutely not. The guy I'm dating is a VERY stylish dresser. I have no idea how he'd do his hair if he had any - he shaves bald (looks hot to me). But he describes himself as metrosexual. Anyway - been dating for nearly 4 months and there's not even the remotest hint of "bi." He has 3 children and has always been a hit with the ladies. Quit being so narrow-minded - it shows your ignorance.
BiNationGuy Posted November 27, 2009 Posted November 27, 2009 Absolutely not. The guy I'm dating is a VERY stylish dresser. I have no idea how he'd do his hair if he had any - he shaves bald (looks hot to me). But he describes himself as metrosexual. Anyway - been dating for nearly 4 months and there's not even the remotest hint of "bi." He has 3 children and has always been a hit with the ladies. Quit being so narrow-minded - it shows your ignorance. Going to be completely honest here, take it or leave it; my thoughts are you being ignorant and leaving it, but i digress.. here goes: The way you describe yourself. A simple analogy tells me that you are going to attract guys %80, and girls %20. Now, that's a very simple way of putting it. I can lay it on you thick, but im not going to. Simple is good.. for now. As i said, you can believe me.. or you can choose not to. -However, when you're approached at 9pm by a male. I. Told. You. So.
SoulSearch_CO Posted November 27, 2009 Posted November 27, 2009 Going to be completely honest here, take it or leave it; my thoughts are you being ignorant and leaving it, Well, I'm glad that you both missed my point. The point was all the things I listed - that is a STRAIGHT MALE. 100% STRAIGHT. My point is - RJM is trying to stereotype that the OP is bi (or leaning that way). I feel THAT is ignorant. I listed all the things in my post and you both assumed I was stating a case for that is ONLY what a straight male does/is. Thanks for asking for clarification and instead keeping the stick stuck where it's at. I was trying to point out that people say a gay or bi person does this and does that. Well the guy that I described without knowing him and just based on what I said, you might assume gay/bi - he's straight. There is no two ways about it. I don't have to sit and list the things that proves he's straight with zero bi leanings. Again - point is - don't stereotype. Ignorant = lack of knowledge - you made assumptions on my post based on your LACK OF KNOWLEDGE as to what I was saying (and didn't bother asking clarification) - so good job showing your own ignorance, sir.
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