tkgirl Posted November 27, 2009 Posted November 27, 2009 so.. there's this guy that I have had a weird history with.. dated off and on the past two years.. way more off than on! and then last summer hung out as "friends" because, well.. but that was kind of weird too so we stopped hanging out altogether even though it seemed like things were cool with us.. I know, it confuses me too! anyho... I'm out with my friend the other night at this cool new bar and all of a sudden I look across the room and see him but he doesn't see me. Then he walks by me.. still seems like he doesn't see me and I hesitate but then decide to yell out his name (it's noisy there!) So he looks at me and goes "what are you doing here?" but he's smiling as he's saying it so I didn't take it in a bad way... I just thought it was a strange thing to say... like maybe I shouldn't be there or something? I was like "um, having a beer with my friend?" Anyways, we did small talk for like 10 seconds but then he seemed like he was uncomfortable so I just said "well, it was good seeing you" and he was like "yeah" and walked away... I guess my point is if we ended things as "friends" why the weirdness? like how should I take his "comment"?
boogieboy Posted November 27, 2009 Posted November 27, 2009 You SHOULDNT take his comment. Theres no relationship, so it means nothing. Dont read into it. Doesnt matter what he says. If you think he didnt want to acknowledge you, then your instinct might be right.
Author tkgirl Posted November 27, 2009 Author Posted November 27, 2009 (edited) You SHOULDNT take his comment. Theres no relationship, so it means nothing. Dont read into it. Doesnt matter what he says. If you think he didnt want to acknowledge you, then your instinct might be right. yeah, you're right... I am reading too much into it. I think he was just really surprised to see me and that's what came out of his mouth... the funny thing is I didn't give it much thought until my friend commented on it, like "what did he mean, what are you doing here?" us girls and our drama! thanks boogieboy for setting me straight! Edited November 27, 2009 by tkgirl
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