Why is he acting this way?

[stardustx85]

I'll try to remain to the point as much as possible with this.

I would be so grateful for some feedback.

I met this guy, maybe 2ish months ago. I didn't want to pursue anything, as I was having a hard time getting over my ex boyfriend.

He pursued things - the more time I spent with him, the more I realised I was falling for him; falling hard. He's funny, sweet, an all round 'nice guy'

We went on lots of dates, got on very well. We have lots in common, etc.

We were in touch quite a bit & we had kissed, but it hadn't developed further yet.

He seemed to really like me & enjoy spending time with me.

Then, he did a 360 & sent out cold vibes.

Basically, since then, he's blowing hot & cold. He cancels plans. We'll meet up(initiated by him now, as I'm so used to him being busy elsewhere) & he leaves early, saying he's tired.

He's told his friends about me, a few of whom I've met & got on well with.

I tried to speak to him about it & he wouldn't give any direct answer/explanation. My gut feeling is that he doesn't know what he wants, so is keeping his options open.

He will not communicate with me about it all.

My confidence is breaking with this guy. I have no idea why things have gone so downhill?

I am trying to move on and forget about him, but I can't get him out of my head.

Should I delete him as a friend from facebook? or is this immature?

We have mutual friends & hang out at the same spots.

I feel crushed. I just opened myself up and put myself out there & now I'm feeling very hurt.

 

I appreciate any comments

Thanks for reading

[tkgirl]

I'll try to remain to the point as much as possible with this.

I would be so grateful for some feedback.

I met this guy, maybe 2ish months ago. I didn't want to pursue anything, as I was having a hard time getting over my ex boyfriend.

He pursued things - the more time I spent with him, the more I realised I was falling for him; falling hard. He's funny, sweet, an all round 'nice guy'

We went on lots of dates, got on very well. We have lots in common, etc.

We were in touch quite a bit & we had kissed, but it hadn't developed further yet.

He seemed to really like me & enjoy spending time with me.

Then, he did a 360 & sent out cold vibes.

Basically, since then, he's blowing hot & cold. He cancels plans. We'll meet up(initiated by him now, as I'm so used to him being busy elsewhere) & he leaves early, saying he's tired.

He's told his friends about me, a few of whom I've met & got on well with.

I tried to speak to him about it & he wouldn't give any direct answer/explanation. My gut feeling is that he doesn't know what he wants, so is keeping his options open.

He will not communicate with me about it all.

My confidence is breaking with this guy. I have no idea why things have gone so downhill?

I am trying to move on and forget about him, but I can't get him out of my head.

Should I delete him as a friend from facebook? or is this immature?

We have mutual friends & hang out at the same spots.

I feel crushed. I just opened myself up and put myself out there & now I'm feeling very hurt.

 

I appreciate any comments

Thanks for reading

 

who knows why he is acting like this but it's not cool... try with all your might to move on and forget about him... you deserve better, right?

[Pizzaman81]

...Then, he did a 360 & sent out cold vibes...

 

If he did a 360, he would have turned around back to where he started. You meant 180?

 

Anyway, maybe he's having regrets... i would do a 540 and move on.

[jerseyboy]

if he did a 360, he would have turned around back to where he started. You meant 180?

 

Anyway, maybe he's having regrets... I would do a 540 and move on.

 

 

lmao

 

 

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[jerseyboy]

Might have met someone

 

Maybe you spent so much time talking about your ex he lost interest

 

No way to tell.

 

Cutr him off, tell him why you are, and see what he does.