who has experienced this sexual fantasy?

[shadowplay]

Here's my ultimate fantasy. It's rather tame, but something I've never experienced. I'm wondering if anyone reading this has, and I'd like to know the details.

 

It's to know somebody purely as an acquaintance or casual friend but to be lusting after him/her for a long time. Then to suddenly screw passionately with no lead up or planning whatsoever. At the right moment something is communicated through body language, you're alone together and you suddenly rip each other's clothes off. All that sexual tension is released in a spectacular burst. In a single moment you jump from friends/strangers to lovers. So hot. I'm not talking about a ONS because you need to know the person beforehand so the tension can build up.

 

I feel like I've seen that kind of thing in movies, but I always wonder how often it happens in real life. More importantly how do I make it happen to me? I guess it's the kind of thing you can't plan.

Edited November 26, 2009 by shadowplay

[johan]

Try passing back and forth in front of my house a few times.

[Sam Spade]

Kinda happened to me long time ago, but it was terrible . Basically a good friend from high school and I got very drunk, had a heart-to-heart convrsation, and in the middle of it - BAM!

 

 

(Not to mess with your fantasy, but more generally, based on my limited experience I've concluded that no matter what, 1st time sex always sucks - it just takes some practice to get it right )

[shadowplay]

Kinda happened to me long time ago, but it was terrible . Basically a good friend from high school and I got very drunk, had a heart-to-heart convrsation, and in the middle of it - BAM!

 

 

(Not to mess with your fantasy, but more generally, based on my limited experience I've concluded that no matter what, 1st time sex always sucks - it just takes some practice to get it right )

 

Being drunk kind of ruins it, right?

[Sam Spade]

Being drunk kind of ruins it, right?

 

 

Yes, it does, plus I question if it would have ever happened if we weren't .

[shadowplay]

Try passing back and forth in front of my house a few times.

 

Sounds hot!

[Boundary Problem]

I would start with the best of intentions with going quickly, but would soon get hopelessly distracted as the clothes started coming off. I just know I would.

 

 

.....I need a glass of water. I have to go turn off the fireplace now.

[jerseyboy]

Most girls Ive ever talked to have that same fantasy.

 

LOL

 

I was in college, and my best friend there was a guy named Eric. Were still friends.

 

So one weekend a girl from where he live sin LI comes to spend the weekend at our college. He never made a big deal about her, just like shes coming. So she gets there and shes pretty hot, but hes totally acting like shes just a friend. First night we all hung for a bit, then I left and let them hang together.

 

Next afternoon he comes to my room and says he has to drive home, I dont remember why, but hell be back sunday. Hes like do me a favor hang with her, shes going to be bored,makes sure shes ok till I get back tomorrow. I even remember asking him you like this girl, just once. And he says shes a friend. Ok shes a friend

 

So I hadnt intended on anything happening with her, and to be truthful cant recall a lot of what we did prior. All I remember well are is its about 1am, were walking through washington square, one second were just walking, and the next were kissing like fiends and pawing at eahc other. I remember some black guy walking by and saying young man if it were me Id get her up in the bed now, something like that. It was also summer, I was taking classes, and my dorm suite had two college professors staying with me. Some guy from Annapolis, and I dont recall where the other was from. Were naked on the bed, they walk in (had to go through my room to get to theirs), and they just got back from somewhere. Theyre trying to hold a convo (other words keep seeing her naked, and prolly hoping theyd join or something) till I finally yell "Get the F**k out" Anyway shes saying stuff that I dont take weird till later, mostly variatins of " OMG I never....." about sex and enjoyment blah blah

 

Next morning she tells me dont tell Eric we slept together ok.

 

............................

 

"Ok,, but why cant I tell Eric"

 

Answer = cause friday they not only slept together, but he asked her out steady, and she said yes. And all the crap she was sayhing in bed about other guys she slept with

 

I still have never told him

[Sam Spade]

You sick ****! Sexual fantasies make baby Jesus cry!

 

 

If baby jesus was a hot girl I'd handcuff him/her to the headboard and to bad stuff to him/her .

 

The world would be a much safer and happier place if people lived out their fantasises - the legal and sensible, and consensual kind, that is.

(I lost most of my interest in schoolgirl porn after I asked my gf to dress like one :laugh:.)

[jerseyboy]

(I lost most of my interest in schoolgirl porn after I asked my gf to dress like one :laugh:.)

 

 

LOL

 

I dated a girl who while were messing around and talking about fantasies says she wants to dress up as a young girl, she was only in her 20's anyway, and have me pick her up on the street. The idea being shes a shy innocent girl, and Id be like this perv letch, talking/forcing her to do stuff with me. And shes all liek lest do it lest do it.

 

So it sounded weird, but I said fine, what she wants etc. But disnterestedly saying yeah, then actually doing it......was just too f'ing weird. Actually made me start feeling ill, had to stop.

 

Then I met Chrissy and she was beautiful . I loved this girl. So this wasnt the first time were together, probably the second or third. We went to one of those short stays on 1 & 9, going nuts, and by this point the sheets are all off the bed, and there is only the plastic cover on the mattress

 

So shes making this huge deal over the plastic cover like "Look! look! there are platic sheets on the bed" I dont care, shes naked, beautiful and Im having a great time. But she wont get off the topic of plastic sheets, then she looks at me and says "have you ever played water sports"

 

And my mind is racing and Im thinking F'k!!!! It had to be too good to be true. Shes f'ing perfect and she has to be a freak!. And Im already thinkiing how hard it is going to be to stop seeing this girl.

 

So I ask what did you have in mind, dreading/knowing the answer

 

So she jumps in the jacuzzi, gets herself soaking wet, then runs across the room and slides across the sheets like it was a slip and slide.

 

And all IM thinking is "Thank you Thank you, shes not a freak, shes just a retard. lol

[Sam Spade]

^^^^^

Haha...

I am convinced that on average girl's sexual fantasies are many, many, many orders of magnitude filthier than guy's fantasise. I wish they were more upfront about them (though when your mind it shis filthy, it's understandable why you'd wana keep it under wraps ). A few examples: somewhere I read a girl confessing that she fantasized about the dentist molesting her on the chair as if she was a little girl, and another (my favorite) confessed that she fantasiized about the oldish, hairy, stinky and fat (sic!) plumber dominating her on the bare basement floor.

 

My explanation has to deal with the more complicated female sexuality overall - it seems the best sex is not the one where you get off clean and clear, but the one that is slightly uncomfortable, perhaps, even slightly painful, so they're not even completely sure if it is pleasant or not .

 

Sex and violence share a long history together, and fighting it, instead of empracing it (the legal and consensual aspects, of it, of course ), doesn't seem to do anybody any good .

Edited November 26, 2009 by Sam Spade

[InspiredbyYou]

Been there done that a few times, never lives up to the fantasy and it ruined one good friendship for me since I was not interested in him as more than friends after we had sex and he was and it made things really weird for us to go back as just friends.

[jerseyboy]

^^^^^

Haha...

I am convinced that on average girl's sexual fantasies are many, many, many orders of magnitude filthier than guy's fantasise. I wish they were more upfront about them (though when your mind it shis filthy, it's understandable why you'd wana keep it under wraps )

 

My explanation has to deal with the more complicated female sexuality overall - it seems the best sex is not the one where you get off clean and clear, but the one that is slightly uncomfortable, perhaps, even slightly painful, so they're not even completely sure if it is pleasant or not .

 

Sex and violence share a long history together, and fighting it, instead of empracing it (the legal and consensual aspects, of it, of course ), doesn't seem to do anybody any good .

 

Women are much freakier than men

 

Or rather, much freakier than me lol. I cant speak to other guys. Its kind of depressing me to me actually, not in the Im judging them sense. I dont care, it doesnt bother me. But I dont share it, or the need for it, so Im just way happier with a "boring" girl than one always wanting you to do things you arent really into. I usually just go along with it though, dont ruin it for them

 

I have my own issues, though tamer than most.

 

For me its more teasing them, and a little control. I dont even know why I do it, just is a charge.

 

Like a woman just shouting profanities is ok.

 

What I like is making her beg for it lol. Especially when the relationship is young.

 

Like most women are a little shy at first, so youll be teasing them with it, just close but never going in all the way, until; they are like..

 

Please

 

"Please what.....that....what are you going to do for me...what if I like it and want to keep doing it....really? anytime I want

 

LOL that sort of crap

 

I have issues:(

[LucreziaBorgia]

That's happened with me more often than not. Which is probably why every relationship I ever had were simply lengthy FWB situations. Nearly every one started that way!

 

Those types of things are really hot, but only for the amount of time they happen, I find. Every relationship that started that way for me ended badly.

[Sam Spade]

Women are much freakier than men

 

Or rather, much freakier than me lol. I cant speak to other guys. Its kind of depressing me to me actually, not in the Im judging them sense. I dont care, it doesnt bother me. But I dont share it, or the need for it, so Im just way happier with a "boring" girl than one always wanting you to do things you arent really into. I usually just go along with it though, dont ruin it for them

 

I have my own issues, though tamer than most.

 

For me its more teasing them, and a little control. I dont even know why I do it, just is a charge.

 

Like a woman just shouting profanities is ok.

 

What I like is making her beg for it lol. Especially when the relationship is young.

 

Like most women are a little shy at first, so youll be teasing them with it, just close but never going in all the way, until; they are like..

 

Please

 

"Please what.....that....what are you going to do for me...what if I like it and want to keep doing it....really? anytime I want

 

LOL that sort of crap

 

I have issues:(

 

 

It is really hard to embrace your male-ness considering that most people are raised to be ashamed of their desires, and particularly boys are taught, implicitly or explicitly, that it is basically insulting to her female highness to want to f*** her brains out .

 

I'm 33, and I'm just now barely beginning to strike the balance between being unapologetic and demanding about it, while retaining healthy mutual respect and sense of humor about it - not easy to do so for yourself, and even harder to do for somebody else: my gf used to make passive-agressive cracks about how "guys only think about one thing:rolleyes:" (but stopped since my response to this always was a resounding "That's right!", and then biting her azz:laugh:)

 

I think that consciously or unconsciously women resent men who are sexually timid, but hate to admit it because that would mean acknowledge that the whole equality thing has gone too far (i.e. beyond the workplace and equal rights, which is where it should be confined to, IMO).

[jerseyboy]

That's happened with me more often than not. Which is probably why every relationship I ever had were simply lengthy FWB situations. Nearly every one started that way!

 

Those types of things are really hot, but only for the amount of time they happen, I find. Every relationship that started that way for me ended badly.

 

 

Thats usually true

 

Sometimes its other things. And I dont think people are always looking for more necessarily.

 

 

When I was dating a girl Kim, she had a friend Nicole. Nicole had one of those different/interesting personalities. I mean she was very very pretty, just special.

 

They were great friends, way before I knew either. And I was working my way through college then so I just remember money was always tight. Hnaging out was always more like a drive to the beach, radio, and some six packs .

 

There was definitely always tension there, and some of this is from talking to her about it afterwards. Like one time we were out at a club, and Kim told me to dance with Nicky, cause she had no one to dance with. We both looked at her real quick guitily like does she know, but nothing had ever been said between us. I knew I was attracted, and really tried to avoid her if anything. The only time I would see her was with Kim. We danced and Kim was there, so its not like we were obvious or grinding, but eben just touching her waist or anything was torture/pleasure. She told me it was same for her, actually brought it up, and it was the same

 

So Nicky transferred, was leaving in a couple of weeks for Berkeley. And honestly I didnt plan on anything happening, I dont know what I was thinking. But I was defintiely thinkign about ehr. So first Im walking near her dorm, Then I think I was thinking I would just say good bye. But really I think I just wanted to look at her, not really for anything to happen, just be near her I guess. I honestly didnt think cheating, and really, we never even talked that way with each other.

 

So I knocked on her door, was going to wish her well, say good bye. And she opened the door, was quiet, said Hi, I said Hi. I dont think we said anything else. Just quiet and looking and looking and then I kissed her. Honestly, it was like I knew if we said anything, even one word, it would be over. And I couldnt say anything, I didnt want it to end. I also remember just literally tearing her clothes off, like if I stopped to take them off, it would never happpen. And her kissing me harder.

 

It was cheating, and there was guilt remorse. But truthfully , and this is crappy to say, I wouldnt change anything. It still gives me goosebumps

[jerseyboy]

It is really hard to embrace your male-ness considering that most people are raised to be ashamed of their desires, and particularly boys are taught, implicitly or explicitly, that it is basically insulting to her female highness to want to f*** her brains out .

 

I'm 33, and I'm just now barely beginning to strike the balance between being unapologetic and demanding about it, while retaining healthy mutual respect and sense of humor about it - not easy to do so for yourself, and even harder to do for somebody else: my gf used to make passive-agressive cracks about how "guys only think about one thing:rolleyes:" (but stopped since my response to this always was a resounding "That's right!", and then biting her azz:laugh:)

 

I think that consciously or unconsciously women resent men who are sexually timid, but hate to admit it because that would mean acknowledge that the whole equality thing has gone too far (i.e. beyond the workplace and equal rights, which is where it should be confined to, IMO).

 

 

I can definitely relate to that

 

Plus probably worse for me because of a lot of different things. Religious home, grew up in an old fashioned immigrant community. I definitely grew up thinking women were "pure", didnt want that sort of thing, and only put up with it because they loved a guy lol. Going to an all boys prep made it worse, since there was far more limited interaction with girls. They were totally myserious to me. Even when a girl tlaked to me I had this guilt, like shes just being nice, and she has no idea all the sick (like wanting to see her naked lol) things I wanted from her. Plus Im a tall big guy. And were more awkward during pubescence. My dad called me baby huey cause I had this mans body (6'5ft and solid/big/played a lot of sports) with this baby face lol. It took a while for everything to catch up:)

 

So when I went to college it was like shooting off a nuclear missile. And then being around girls, you start noticing that they arent just tolerating you, they like you. Like Im in oreintation with 20 or so other kids, and whoever is running it asks everyone to share what they want to get out of the orientation experience. So everyone is saying these bs things, and it gets to my turn, and I say I want to get to know this girl a few chairs down bettter. So people are hooting and hollering, and I think I said it mostly to look hard, but then she says when its her turn shed like to get to know me too. And I think it started to click for me.

 

I was on Bleeker St with some guys I met, and again just trying to look more worldly than I was even close to being lol, and there was a pretty waitress. They were saying theyd love to talk to her, and I was as shy as any of them, but wanted to play the big man, so I did start talking to her. And things got waaay out of hand. And by the end of it Im walking this girl back to my dorm room, shes at least 7 years older I think, and Im literally terrified lol. She was way too aggresive for me. And theyre all outside my room tio make it worse. I cant recall exactly what she said to me, but she wanted me to do soemthing to her ass, probably oral or something ( I cant recall exactly wehat), but Im close to a virgin, and I remember meekly saying "can you please just leave now:"

 

But I think it started witrh those things., You just start to realize you can get girls to do things, a feeling of power, and it goes from there

[shadowplay]

Jerseyboy: Your life sounds like a blast!

[kizik]

I work with a couple hotties that I would definitely nail in the conference room. So yeah, I can understand this fantasy.

 

But right now I'm going through a MILF thing.

[Pizzaman81]

Sounds hot!

 

Put it right there!