lostwithafuture Posted November 24, 2009 Posted November 24, 2009 Hi there, Well there is this girl I like which I have gotten to know in the past month and we have gone out as friends a few times. We enjoy each others company, joke a lot and get on well. Now she loves to joke with me and even make fun of me at times which makes me unsure if she likes me or not. I haven't asked her out and I am unsure if I even should because she has got a lot of guy friends and she might just see me as one of them!?? Some advice would be really appriciated! Thanks!
Pizzaman81 Posted November 24, 2009 Posted November 24, 2009 Hi there, Well there is this girl I like which I have gotten to know in the past month and we have gone out as friends a few times. We enjoy each others company, joke a lot and get on well. Now she loves to joke with me and even make fun of me at times which makes me unsure if she likes me or not. I haven't asked her out and I am unsure if I even should because she has got a lot of guy friends and she might just see me as one of them!?? Some advice would be really appriciated! Thanks! How many relationships have you had or encounters with women? The more you get in touch with the more you will be able to tell if they like you or not. Joking around and such does not always mean they like you physically or find you attractive. Girls can be nice because they are nice, and us guys have to accept that and not think too much into it. Does she flirt with you? Is she proactive in trying to find time to hang out with you? Does she seem nervous at some times? Those might be indications that she could think of you more than just a friend. You need to act more confident around her and not so wishy washy with her, if you wish to take it to another step, maybe show her that you are interested. And don't get bogged down if things don't work right! There's plenty women out there.
Author lostwithafuture Posted November 24, 2009 Author Posted November 24, 2009 How many relationships have you had or encounters with women? The more you get in touch with the more you will be able to tell if they like you or not. Joking around and such does not always mean they like you physically or find you attractive. Girls can be nice because they are nice, and us guys have to accept that and not think too much into it. Does she flirt with you? Is she proactive in trying to find time to hang out with you? Does she seem nervous at some times? Those might be indications that she could think of you more than just a friend. You need to act more confident around her and not so wishy washy with her, if you wish to take it to another step, maybe show her that you are interested. And don't get bogged down if things don't work right! There's plenty women out there. Many thanks for your reply. Well I have been in a few relationships but this girl seems a bit different, so a bit harder to work out. Now to answer your questions, no she does not flirt with me (I have tried but she does not respond at all). She is proactive in trying to find time to hang out and yes she does seem nervous at times even though not that often. Well that is what I seem to find hard, showing her that I am interested without making the whole thing seem weird.
Pizzaman81 Posted November 24, 2009 Posted November 24, 2009 Many thanks for your reply. Well I have been in a few relationships but this girl seems a bit different, so a bit harder to work out. Now to answer your questions, no she does not flirt with me (I have tried but she does not respond at all). She is proactive in trying to find time to hang out and yes she does seem nervous at times even though not that often. Well that is what I seem to find hard, showing her that I am interested without making the whole thing seem weird. I think having things seem "weird" is relative. It's usually NEVER weird when you like a person and that person shows they are interested in you. It's very welcoming in fact. So I guess the question is, would you still hang out with her and be her friend if you learned she is not interested in you?
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