woopster638 Posted November 24, 2009 Posted November 24, 2009 ok,lets cut the story short here: -i started goin out wit her since the beginning of august,hanged out almost every week,i jus wanted to have sex wit her at first but.......she was not givin it to me so soon lol -so i still stuck around and spent more time wit her........but as time went by,i started to fall 4 her,didn't have sex or made out wit her as yet,but was flirting ... -then i finally asked her to be my GF,she gave d dreaded "just friends,".....after dat i kinda reduced the time i spent wit her. -but she was still callin and textin ever so often to hang out,i went along wit it wit the false hope of a romantic relationship,which got me where i am now,no progress or maybe it was that like my friends said....i was not steppin up my game enough,becoz all my friends no and she did tell me she like me. -i havent spoken to her for 3 weeks now,but i'm still thinkin of her,but ONE thing your should no is dat......she had presented me the chance of sex numerous times,but i was unsure either to do it,becoz it mite make me more attached,but i still want her sexually and romantic wise. ---plz no dat she had just ended a 3yr relationship jus a 2months before she started goin out wit me.and i no dat she still had feelings 4 the ex... ---i dont no if i should just continue wit my life and eventually 4get her or make a last effort to get her.coz i havent felt like dat 4 a girl in a long while....ANY ADVICE WILL BE APPRECIATED:)
CarrieT Posted November 24, 2009 Posted November 24, 2009 I have no idea how you communicate with this girl in real life, but I can tell you that "txt spk" is a HUGE turn-off. There is no way I would get involved with a guy who spells "with" as "wit" or "because" as "coz." To me, you aren't boyfriend material, but just a player.
kairi and sora Posted November 24, 2009 Posted November 24, 2009 Hmm, whats most interesting to me is that when i read your post, i actually picture the words written in an accent. i know its fun to type how you speak. i, personally am a big fan of l33t speak when im gaming, but if you want other peoples' opinions about a serious subject, use proper grammer so u dont come off as an illiterate fool.
sedgwick Posted November 24, 2009 Posted November 24, 2009 I tried to read this, but the whole "wit," "dat," and "d" was too much. Text-speak is okay for texts (if you must), but if you want serious help on a serious matter, please take the time to type out words. I promise it's not that hard to type "please know that" as opposed to "plz no dat."
VeveCakes Posted November 24, 2009 Posted November 24, 2009 So...you were going out but she wanted to be just friends? Did you "imagine" you were her boyfriend?
Author woopster638 Posted November 27, 2009 Author Posted November 27, 2009 OK,i apologize for the poor spelling and i also want your to know that,she text-ed me to call her sometime today,but i didn't reply because I'm still thinking that she is going to lead me on,im doing the no-contact method to help in forgetting her,because I really like her and thinking it will make it worst if she is not on the same level as me. But,i wanna ask if she will eventually get the idea that what she doing is wrong or your think i should approach her with it? "this girl is killing me inside!it will probably take more than 2 girls to forget about her lol"
Legend Posted November 27, 2009 Posted November 27, 2009 I think you'd get better responses if you typed coherent sentences.
tkgirl Posted November 27, 2009 Posted November 27, 2009 OK,i apologize for the poor spelling and i also want your to know that,she text-ed me to call her sometime today,but i didn't reply because I'm still thinking that she is going to lead me on,im doing the no-contact method to help in forgetting her,because I really like her and thinking it will make it worst if she is not on the same level as me. But,i wanna ask if she will eventually get the idea that what she doing is wrong or your think i should approach her with it? "this girl is killing me inside!it will probably take more than 2 girls to forget about her lol" I think you should tell her again... it seems like you are just playing games now by doing the NC thing without any explanation... but it's not how you really feel... but I'm a girl so what do I know? the guys here will probably tell you to forget about her.
boogieboy Posted November 27, 2009 Posted November 27, 2009 OK,i apologize for the poor spelling and i also want your to know that,she text-ed me to call her sometime today,but i didn't reply because I'm still thinking that she is going to lead me on,im doing the no-contact method to help in forgetting her,because I really like her and thinking it will make it worst if she is not on the same level as me. But,i wanna ask if she will eventually get the idea that what she doing is wrong or your think i should approach her with it? "this girl is killing me inside!it will probably take more than 2 girls to forget about her lol" What she is doing is wrong, ONLY if you go along with it. If you dont reply to her, then her texts and calls go into the wind, you dont have to know what theyre about. Dont sweat it. Ignore her for life, forget about her, she will eventually get the message, let her suffer. She knew you liked her but didnt sat shyt....you owe her no explanations.
hopesndreams Posted November 27, 2009 Posted November 27, 2009 OK,i apologize for the poor spelling and i also want your to know that,she text-ed me to call her sometime today,but i didn't reply because I'm still thinking that she is going to lead me on,im doing the no-contact method to help in forgetting her,because I really like her and thinking it will make it worst if she is not on the same level as me. But,i wanna ask if she will eventually get the idea that what she doing is wrong or your think i should approach her with it? "this girl is killing me inside!it will probably take more than 2 girls to forget about her lol" You`re funny.
Midnight Rider Posted November 27, 2009 Posted November 27, 2009 I think you're in the friend zone now buddy. There is only 1 solution for you -- next time you see her, go out for some drinks and then after you are both a little tipsy just try to make out with her. That will get things rolling, and you should know within the next 48 hours where you stand. Any other approach will just be a lengthy ordeal, and I know you want answers NOW.
radwimps Posted November 27, 2009 Posted November 27, 2009 wait, just let me be clear on this one thing, not to be rude or anything you "Went out with her" as in you "Dated her" Since August(That's 4 months) and have not even KISSED HER? Im sorry but... are you sure you were GOING OUT WITH HER as in DATING her? or just a Friends thing?? If you guys went out that frequently as a "friends" thing, you definitely got friend zoned. listen to what boggieboy said, it's what you should do if you got friendzoned.
Author woopster638 Posted November 27, 2009 Author Posted November 27, 2009 thanks for the responses please know that i could have slept with her more than few occasions,but i didn't because I'm a little afraid that i will get really attached without knowing if she felt anything for me.but i recall twice when i did make a move,she will reject me.i don't know what the hell she wants,my friends told me that she probably really wanted to just sex me....but I'm too slow to react to the times or that she is just waiting for me ask again to be gf,because i asked her like a month of seeing her. my decision is, go out and get infatuate with someone else or tell her this when i speak to her next time "i tell you i not ****ing play games, if i want you that means i want ****ing you.........and i don't want no friend thing either!" and then proceed to make out....if that fails,goodbye to her forever.
radwimps Posted November 27, 2009 Posted November 27, 2009 (edited) sure go ahead lol... you sound kind of self centered and don't give half a thought about what she wants, Not sure where that would go Edited November 27, 2009 by radwimps
Author woopster638 Posted November 27, 2009 Author Posted November 27, 2009 omfg...i hate to get infatuated,makes me over analyze everything
Author woopster638 Posted November 27, 2009 Author Posted November 27, 2009 i hate hate infatuations!!!!
Legend Posted November 28, 2009 Posted November 28, 2009 Man up, you're acting like a girl, grow a pair and don't let her take mental advantage of you!
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