Do "good girls" exist anymore?

[kairi and sora]

Hey everyone

 

Im 18 at the moment, *well 19 on the 30th *

and i wanted to ask everyone out there a serious question. Is it too much to ask for, at my age, to find a "good girl". Because based on my last relationship, and my 4 years at high school, they are becoming almost extinct

 

I was brought up extremely well by my parents, im very chivalrous, nice to all girls, smart, dumb, pretty, ugly, looks arent very important in the opposite sex to me. But it seems that the only girls around my age aren't the quote unquote "good girls". u know, the kind of girl that actually wants to WAIT more than a month to have sex with someone after getting into a relationship with them, the kind that doesnt put such a big emphasis on sex in a relationship, and when they DO, its a special occasion, used by the couple to show how much they love each other, not just a casual hookup every weekend. seems like all the girls in high school/college just care about gettin drunk, going to parties hoooking up with random guys, and in turn, destroying their self esteem and more.

 

so is it too much to ask for? just feel like im like one of the last guys of my age group, actually one of the last PEOPLE in my age group, that is like this :/

[kairi and sora]

smilies came out in URL form for some reason :/ sorry haha

[jerseyboy]

You mean like virginal martyrs waiting for your heroic presence to enter their lives so that they can bestow upon you their fawning undying love and attention.

 

 

Yeah you better grow out of that real quick friend. They dont exist

 

But you arent Prince Charming either, so it all works out in the end

[kairi and sora]

Hah...no. all i said is that i would like to meet a girl that isnt the steriotypical "party girl". someone that actually has a personality and doesnt put a big emphasis on sex.

[jerseyboy]

The world is full of good girls

 

But at 18 you should be seeking out the bad ones:)

[kairi and sora]

Yes, but like i ALREADY stated, thats not what i look for, or find attractive in a girl

[Sith Apprentice]

You were born in the wrong generation. 9 times out of 10 when a woman seems "good" it is actually a cleverly disguised mask. You will have to weed through a lot of ho's if your gonna find a keeper.

[TheLoneSock]

Hah...no. all i said is that i would like to meet a girl that isnt the steriotypical "party girl".

 

Pretty sure you said a lot more than that.

[JustLooking123]

There are plenty of girls like that. Where are you looking? That might be the problem.

[Katrina65]

Good girls do exist, but it does seem to be becoming a rarity these days. I've noticed a lot of younger girls really have taken a less serious approach to life; they dress scantily and define their self worth by the number of random, no feeling hookups they can obtain. I'm about a decade older than you, and good girls even seem rare in my age group, but I have a small circle of friends who I would definitely consider to be good girls. And they found good guys, too. What I'd recommend, being a good guy, is do what you enjoy best. Surround yourself with hobbies and classes that interest you. Birds of a feather tend to flock together, so it is likely that "good" people will follow a similar path to yourself. Then, keep a good eye out for people that you relate to, and you may just find yourself with a good girl. They are out there:) Just don't settle for less!